Relationship Spread #2
Difficulty: Easy
This relationship spread focuses more on the common ground of the relationship, with three cards in the middle column showing the common ground. The middle column essentially displays the past, present, and future of the relationship.
Card #4 stands for the common base of the relationship, which may be thought of as the past events which have shaped their characters, bringing them together. The current connection that binds them together is Card #3, indicating the values shared. Card #7 implies the common goals that would keep the pair together moving into the future.
The columns on either side show what each partner brings to the table. Remember, relationships need not be romantic, and the partners could even be groups rather than individuals. In this layout, the other person is on the left-hand side and the reader on the right.
Cards #1 & #2 indicate the separate personalities of each member of the relationship. These cards form a sort of bridge with the cards beneath them, #5 & #6, which show the qualities that each partner offers the other person, and thus to the relationship as a whole.
Your Relationship #2 Reading
Mutual Goals |
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Your Qualities |
Connection (Present) |
Others' Qualities |
What You Bring |
Common Base (Past) |
What They Bring  |
7: Mutual Goals
I – The Magician
The Magician signifies mastery, skill, and the power to shape reality. This card represents harnessing resources and directing one's energies towards success. The Magician embodies the potential to manifest desires into tangible form.
Symbolism: He stands before a table with tools representing the four elements: a cup (Water), a sword (Air), a coin (Earth), and a wand (Fire). His raised wand symbolises the connection between spirit and matter, and his hat, shaped like an infinity symbol, signifies endless potential.
In Relationships: A time to use charm, wit, and initiative to build or strengthen relationships.
In Work: Opportunity, success, and the power to manifest goals through skill and action.
Spiritually: The Magician teaches the importance of intention, focus, and using one's talents for higher purposes.
When ill-dignified: Deception, manipulation, or scattered energy. Warning against using one's power for selfish gain.
3: Connection
VI – The Lovers
The Lovers represents choice, duality, and the connections that shape our lives. This card often signals a critical decision between love and duty, passion and responsibility.
Symbolism: A young man stands between two women, representing virtue and temptation, while a winged figure above aims a bow and arrow, guiding his choice. The lush background reflects the complexity and growth that relationships bring.
In Relationships: Choices in relationships, including romantic triangles, commitment, or the deepening of bonds.
In Work: A crossroads where personal values must be aligned with career decisions.
Spiritually: A call to balance inner conflicts and unite dualities in the quest for harmony.
When ill-dignified: Indecision, infidelity, or superficiality in relationships.
4: Common Base
III – The Empress
The Empress embodies creativity, fertility, and nurturing energy. She symbolises the fruitful aspects of life, from creativity to personal growth, and encourages abundance in all forms.
Symbolism: Adorned with a crown of stars, she sits in a lush, fertile garden, holding a sceptre and shield. These symbols signify both authority and protection. The crescent moon beneath her feet connects her to cycles of intuition and growth.
In Relationships: Nurturing love, emotional bonds, or the creation of something new in a relationship, such as a family.
In Work: Success in creative ventures, productive work, and harmony.
Spiritually: Connection with natural and cosmic cycles, alignment with divine timing.
When ill-dignified: Stagnation, overindulgence, or the misuse of creative energy.
2: Your Qualities
XIX – The Sun
The Sun represents clarity, success, and vitality. It signifies moments of joy, abundance, and realising one's potential.
Symbolism: The Sun shines gloriously over a youthful couple, symbolising innocence, energy, and optimism. A multi-coloured brick wall shelters them, representing protection, growth, vitality, and success. The clear sky suggests obstacles are removed and clarity reigns.
In Relationships: Joyful, open-hearted love. The Sun represents happiness, clear communication, and successful partnerships.
In Work: Success, recognition, and the fulfilment of goals. Positive energy surrounds professional endeavours.
Spiritually: Enlightenment and the ability to see the truth clearly.
When ill-dignified: Arrogance, overconfidence, or a tendency to overlook important details in the pursuit of success.
1: Their Qualities
XVI – The Tower
The Tower signifies sudden upheaval, revelation, and the breaking down of false structures. This card represents moments of crisis or dramatic change that lead to profound transformation.
Symbolism: The Tower is struck by lightning, causing it to collapse. Figures fall from the tower, symbolising the suddenness and unexpected nature of the event. The crown-like top falling from the tower suggests that pride or false beliefs are being shattered.
In Relationships: A sudden revelation or event that shatters illusions, leading to change or the breakdown of a relationship.
In Work: Unexpected disruption, the destruction of old structures, or a breakdown of outdated systems.
Spiritually: A wake-up call that challenges beliefs or systems, leading to greater clarity and spiritual growth.
When ill-dignified: Crisis, destruction without transformation, or a refusal to accept change.
6: What You Bring
XII – The Hanged Man
5: What They Bring
0 – The Fool
The Fool represents freedom, spontaneity, and new beginnings. This card signifies the start of an adventurous journey, full of potential but also uncertainty. He reminds us to embrace the unknown with optimism and an open heart.
Symbolism: The Fool carries a staff and a small sack, symbolising untapped potential and the lessons to be learned. The playful animal at his feet represents instinct, loyalty, and sometimes, the forces that pull us in conflicting directions. His carefree attitude invites a leap into the unknown.
In Relationships: New romantic beginnings, playfulness, and spontaneity, but be wary of impulsive actions.
In Work: A time for exploration, openness to unconventional opportunities, and embracing the unfamiliar.
Spiritually: Embarking on a journey of self-discovery, embracing the unknown with faith.
When ill-dignified: Recklessness, lack of foresight, and the dangers of ignoring consequences.