Relationship Spread #2
Difficulty: Easy
This relationship spread focuses more on the common ground of the relationship, with three cards in the middle column showing the common ground. The middle column essentially displays the past, present, and future of the relationship.
Card #4 stands for the common base of the relationship, which may be thought of as the past events which have shaped their characters, bringing them together. The current connection that binds them together is Card #3, indicating the values shared. Card #7 implies the common goals that would keep the pair together moving into the future.
The columns on either side show what each partner brings to the table. Remember, relationships need not be romantic, and the partners could even be groups rather than individuals. In this layout, the other person is on the left-hand side and the reader on the right.
Cards #1 & #2 indicate the separate personalities of each member of the relationship. These cards form a sort of bridge with the cards beneath them, #5 & #6, which show the qualities that each partner offers the other person, and thus to the relationship as a whole.
Your Relationship #2 Reading
Mutual Goals |
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Your Qualities |
Connection (Present) |
Others' Qualities |
What You Bring |
Common Base (Past) |
What They Bring  |
7: Mutual Goals
VII – The Chariot
The Chariot represents victory, control, and determination. It signifies the ability to overcome obstacles and navigate life's challenges through focus and willpower.
Symbolism: The charioteer rides a chariot drawn by two sphinxes, symbolising opposing forces that must be balanced. The chariot is adorned with symbols of conquest, and the figure wears a crown, signifying authority and triumph.
In Relationships: A relationship driven by effort and mutual determination, or one that requires balance and compromise.
In Work: Triumph through perseverance, conquering challenges with focus.
Spiritually: A journey of self-mastery, overcoming inner struggles, and moving forward with purpose.
When ill-dignified: Recklessness, lack of direction, or being pulled in conflicting directions.
3: Connection
XII – The Hanged Man
The Hanged Man symbolises suspension, sacrifice, and a shift in perspective. This card represents moments when one must release old beliefs or attachments to gain deeper insight and understanding.
Symbolism: The Hanged Man is depicted hanging upside down, suspended by one foot. His serene expression reflects acceptance and surrender, as he finds wisdom through a change in perspective. His hair resembles a crown symbolising enlightenment and the illumination gained through this pause.
In Relationships: A period of reflection, where relationships may need to be reassessed. It could also suggest a sacrifice for love or personal growth within relationships.
In Work: A time for letting go of old ways of thinking, re-evaluating goals, or waiting patiently for a shift in circumstances.
Spiritually: A time for surrender and spiritual enlightenment, achieved through a different perspective.
When ill-dignified: Stagnation, indecision, or an unwillingness to make necessary sacrifices for growth.
4: Common Base
I – The Magician
The Magician signifies mastery, skill, and the power to shape reality. This card represents harnessing resources and directing one's energies towards success. The Magician embodies the potential to manifest desires into tangible form.
Symbolism: He stands before a table with tools representing the four elements: a cup (Water), a sword (Air), a coin (Earth), and a wand (Fire). His raised wand symbolises the connection between spirit and matter, and his hat, shaped like an infinity symbol, signifies endless potential.
In Relationships: A time to use charm, wit, and initiative to build or strengthen relationships.
In Work: Opportunity, success, and the power to manifest goals through skill and action.
Spiritually: The Magician teaches the importance of intention, focus, and using one's talents for higher purposes.
When ill-dignified: Deception, manipulation, or scattered energy. Warning against using one's power for selfish gain.
2: Your Qualities
VIII – Justice
Justice represents balance, fairness, and accountability. This card calls for the resolution of disputes and alignment with truth and fairness in all areas of life.
Symbolism: Justice sits with a sword in one hand and scales in the other, symbolising impartiality, truth, and balance. Her crown and steady gaze emphasise her authority over matters of fairness.
In Relationships: A balanced relationship or the need to resolve unresolved issues with fairness and integrity.
In Work: Legal matters, contracts, or decisions that require careful evaluation.
Spiritually: A reminder to live truthfully, aligning actions with higher principles.
When ill-dignified: Dishonesty, imbalance, or the refusal to accept responsibility for one's actions.
1: Their Qualities
XIII – Death
Death signifies transformation, endings, and new beginnings. Rather than literal death, it represents the end of a phase in life, making way for rebirth and regeneration.
Symbolism: Death is portrayed as a skeleton reaping the harvest with a scythe, signifying purification and the promise of growth. Parts of the fallen lie before them, representing what must be left behind for transformation to occur. The card's imagery reminds us that change is inevitable.
In Relationships: An ending or significant change, clearing the way for fresh developments or perspectives.
In Work: The end of a project, job, or phase of life, leading to the start of something new and transformative.
Spiritually: A transformative time where old beliefs or habits must be released for personal growth.
When ill-dignified: Resistance to change, stagnation, or fear of transformation.
6: What You Bring
V – The Pope
5: What They Bring
XX – Judgement
Judgement signifies awakening, rebirth, and the call for transformation. It represents a moment of reckoning, where one must confront past actions and make a decisive move towards spiritual renewal.
Symbolism: The card depicts an angel blowing a trumpet, summoning the figures below to rise from their graves. This symbolises resurrection, awakening, and the opportunity to start anew. The figures represent souls being called to accountability and transformation.
In Relationships: A transformative period in relationships, where past actions and decisions must be reconciled.
In Work: A time of reckoning, where decisions from the past may come to fruition, calling for a new direction.
Spiritually: Spiritual awakening and the need to answer a higher call. Transformation and rebirth are key themes.
When ill-dignified: Denial, avoidance of responsibility, or refusal to embrace the transformative potential of change.