Relationship Spread #2
Difficulty: Easy
This relationship spread focuses more on the common ground of the relationship, with three cards in the middle column showing the common ground. The middle column essentially displays the past, present, and future of the relationship.
Card #4 stands for the common base of the relationship, which may be thought of as the past events which have shaped their characters, bringing them together. The current connection that binds them together is Card #3, indicating the values shared. Card #7 implies the common goals that would keep the pair together moving into the future.
The columns on either side show what each partner brings to the table. Remember, relationships need not be romantic, and the partners could even be groups rather than individuals. In this layout, the other person is on the left-hand side and the reader on the right.
Cards #1 & #2 indicate the separate personalities of each member of the relationship. These cards form a sort of bridge with the cards beneath them, #5 & #6, which show the qualities that each partner offers the other person, and thus to the relationship as a whole.
Your Relationship #2 Reading
Mutual Goals |
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Your Qualities |
Connection (Present) |
Others' Qualities |
What You Bring |
Common Base (Past) |
What They Bring  |
7: Mutual Goals
XI – Strength
Strength symbolises inner strength, courage, and emotional mastery. It represents the power of compassion and grace in overcoming challenges, rather than brute force.
Symbolism: A woman calmly subdues a lion, symbolising the triumph of inner strength over raw power. Her serene expression and gentle hands show mastery through patience and understanding.
In Relationships: Strength to overcome emotional challenges through understanding and patience.
In Work: Success through resilience, determination, and tact, not through force.
Spiritually: Mastery of inner impulses and alignment with higher virtues.
When ill-dignified: Weakness, impatience, or misuse of power in challenging situations.
3: Connection
V – The Pope
The Pope represents tradition, spiritual guidance, and morality. He symbolises the need for structure, passing sacred knowledge, and alignment with established systems or mentors.
Symbolism: Seated on a throne with a triple-cross sceptre and a raised hand in blessing, the Pope embodies divine wisdom. The twin pillars behind him suggest the gateway to higher knowledge and understanding.
In Relationships: A traditional, committed relationship or the need to realign with moral principles.
In Work: Seek guidance from a mentor or adhere to established structures for success.
Spiritually: The Pope calls for a return to faith, ethics, and divine wisdom in all aspects of life.
When ill-dignified: Dogmatism, hypocrisy, or blind adherence to outdated traditions.
4: Common Base
XVIII – The Moon
The Moon signifies illusion, intuition, and the subconscious mind. It represents the mystery of the unknown, hidden fears, and the need to trust inner guidance while navigating uncertainty.
Symbolism: The Moon is depicted with two dogs howling at the moon, symbolising the pull of primal instincts. A crayfish crawls from the water, representing the subconscious emerging into consciousness. The path leads towards a distant horizon, symbolising the journey through confusion to clarity.
In Relationships: Illusions in relationships, emotional confusion, or hidden feelings. Trust your intuition to navigate these uncertain waters.
In Work: Uncertainty or the need to trust your instincts. Hidden factors may influence the situation.
Spiritually: A time to confront fears, listen to your inner voice, and seek clarity in moments of doubt.
When ill-dignified: Deception, illusion, or being misled by false hopes or unclear situations.
2: Your Qualities
VI – The Lovers
The Lovers represents choice, duality, and the connections that shape our lives. This card often signals a critical decision between love and duty, passion and responsibility.
Symbolism: A young man stands between two women, representing virtue and temptation, while a winged figure above aims a bow and arrow, guiding his choice. The lush background reflects the complexity and growth that relationships bring.
In Relationships: Choices in relationships, including romantic triangles, commitment, or the deepening of bonds.
In Work: A crossroads where personal values must be aligned with career decisions.
Spiritually: A call to balance inner conflicts and unite dualities in the quest for harmony.
When ill-dignified: Indecision, infidelity, or superficiality in relationships.
1: Their Qualities
XX – Judgement
Judgement signifies awakening, rebirth, and the call for transformation. It represents a moment of reckoning, where one must confront past actions and make a decisive move towards spiritual renewal.
Symbolism: The card depicts an angel blowing a trumpet, summoning the figures below to rise from their graves. This symbolises resurrection, awakening, and the opportunity to start anew. The figures represent souls being called to accountability and transformation.
In Relationships: A transformative period in relationships, where past actions and decisions must be reconciled.
In Work: A time of reckoning, where decisions from the past may come to fruition, calling for a new direction.
Spiritually: Spiritual awakening and the need to answer a higher call. Transformation and rebirth are key themes.
When ill-dignified: Denial, avoidance of responsibility, or refusal to embrace the transformative potential of change.
6: What You Bring
III – The Empress
5: What They Bring
0 – The Fool
The Fool represents freedom, spontaneity, and new beginnings. This card signifies the start of an adventurous journey, full of potential but also uncertainty. He reminds us to embrace the unknown with optimism and an open heart.
Symbolism: The Fool carries a staff and a small sack, symbolising untapped potential and the lessons to be learned. The playful animal at his feet represents instinct, loyalty, and sometimes, the forces that pull us in conflicting directions. His carefree attitude invites a leap into the unknown.
In Relationships: New romantic beginnings, playfulness, and spontaneity, but be wary of impulsive actions.
In Work: A time for exploration, openness to unconventional opportunities, and embracing the unfamiliar.
Spiritually: Embarking on a journey of self-discovery, embracing the unknown with faith.
When ill-dignified: Recklessness, lack of foresight, and the dangers of ignoring consequences.