Relationship Spread #2
Difficulty: Easy
This relationship spread focuses more on the common ground of the relationship, with three cards in the middle column showing the common ground. The middle column essentially displays the past, present, and future of the relationship.
Card #4 stands for the common base of the relationship, which may be thought of as the past events which have shaped their characters, bringing them together. The current connection that binds them together is Card #3, indicating the values shared. Card #7 implies the common goals that would keep the pair together moving into the future.
The columns on either side show what each partner brings to the table. Remember, relationships need not be romantic, and the partners could even be groups rather than individuals. In this layout, the other person is on the left-hand side and the reader on the right.
Cards #1 & #2 indicate the separate personalities of each member of the relationship. These cards form a sort of bridge with the cards beneath them, #5 & #6, which show the qualities that each partner offers the other person, and thus to the relationship as a whole.
Your Relationship #2 Reading
Mutual Goals |
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Your Qualities |
Connection (Present) |
Others' Qualities |
What You Bring |
Common Base (Past) |
What They Bring  |
7: Mutual Goals
VII – The Chariot
The Chariot represents victory, control, and determination. It signifies the ability to overcome obstacles and navigate life's challenges through focus and willpower.
Symbolism: The charioteer rides a chariot drawn by two sphinxes, symbolising opposing forces that must be balanced. The chariot is adorned with symbols of conquest, and the figure wears a crown, signifying authority and triumph.
In Relationships: A relationship driven by effort and mutual determination, or one that requires balance and compromise.
In Work: Triumph through perseverance, conquering challenges with focus.
Spiritually: A journey of self-mastery, overcoming inner struggles, and moving forward with purpose.
When ill-dignified: Recklessness, lack of direction, or being pulled in conflicting directions.
3: Connection
XVII – The Star
The Star represents hope, inspiration, and divine guidance. This card signifies moments of clarity, healing, and the connection to higher aspirations.
Symbolism: The Star is a nude woman pouring water onto the ground and into a pool, symbolising the flow of spiritual energy. A star shines brightly above her, representing guidance and inspiration. The peaceful, open landscape conveys hope and renewal.
In Relationships: A time of healing, hope, and emotional renewal. This card suggests trust and faith in the potential for deep connection.
In Work: Inspiration, new opportunities, and alignment with your true calling.
Spiritually: A period of spiritual renewal, where divine guidance leads the way towards greater fulfilment.
When ill-dignified: Hopelessness, lack of faith, or feeling disconnected from one's spiritual path.
4: Common Base
XI – Strength
Strength symbolises inner strength, courage, and emotional mastery. It represents the power of compassion and grace in overcoming challenges, rather than brute force.
Symbolism: A woman calmly subdues a lion, symbolising the triumph of inner strength over raw power. Her serene expression and gentle hands show mastery through patience and understanding.
In Relationships: Strength to overcome emotional challenges through understanding and patience.
In Work: Success through resilience, determination, and tact, not through force.
Spiritually: Mastery of inner impulses and alignment with higher virtues.
When ill-dignified: Weakness, impatience, or misuse of power in challenging situations.
2: Your Qualities
II – The High Priestess
The High Priestess represents intuition, wisdom, and hidden knowledge. She invites introspection and reminds us to trust our inner voice in uncovering truths that are not immediately apparent.
Symbolism: Seated on a throne with a book of wisdom and keys, the High Priestess represents access to esoteric knowledge. The curtains behind her suggest mystery and the boundary between the conscious and unconscious realms.
In Relationships: Emotional depth, secrets, or a need for patience and understanding.
In Work: Hidden opportunities, deep research, or learning emerging from within.
Spiritually: Trust your intuition and explore spiritual truths beyond the material world.
When ill-dignified: Ignorance, repressed emotions, or manipulation behind the veil of mystery.
1: Their Qualities
XIX – The Sun
The Sun represents clarity, success, and vitality. It signifies moments of joy, abundance, and realising one's potential.
Symbolism: The Sun shines gloriously over a youthful couple, symbolising innocence, energy, and optimism. A multi-coloured brick wall shelters them, representing protection, growth, vitality, and success. The clear sky suggests obstacles are removed and clarity reigns.
In Relationships: Joyful, open-hearted love. The Sun represents happiness, clear communication, and successful partnerships.
In Work: Success, recognition, and the fulfilment of goals. Positive energy surrounds professional endeavours.
Spiritually: Enlightenment and the ability to see the truth clearly.
When ill-dignified: Arrogance, overconfidence, or a tendency to overlook important details in the pursuit of success.
6: What You Bring
XVIII – The Moon
5: What They Bring
XV – The Devil
The Devil represents temptation, materialism, and the enslavement of desires. It points to the darker aspects of the self, where one is bound by addictions, fears, or unhealthy attachments.
Symbolism: The Devil is depicted as a horned figure with a monstrous appearance, standing over two chained figures. The chains are loose, indicating that freedom is possible, but the figures are unaware of their power to escape. The card represents self-imposed limitations.
In Relationships: Unhealthy attachments, temptation, or toxic relationships. A call to break free from negative patterns.
In Work: Materialism, greed, or feeling trapped in a situation. The need to release limiting behaviours.
Spiritually: The need to confront personal fears, addictions, or attachments that block spiritual growth.
When ill-dignified: Excess, obsession, or being enslaved by negative influences or desires.