Relationship Spread #1
Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
You |
Other Person |
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Thought |
 XIX – The Sun |
 X – The Wheel of Fortune |
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Emotion |
 VII – The Chariot |
The Significator  II – The High Priestess |
 XI – Strength |
External Stance |
 IX – The Hermit |
 XVIII – The Moon |
The Significator
II – The High Priestess
The High Priestess represents intuition, wisdom, and hidden knowledge. She invites introspection and reminds us to trust our inner voice in uncovering truths that are not immediately apparent.
Symbolism: Seated on a throne with a book of wisdom and keys, the High Priestess represents access to esoteric knowledge. The curtains behind her suggest mystery and the boundary between the conscious and unconscious realms.
In Relationships: Emotional depth, secrets, or a need for patience and understanding.
In Work: Hidden opportunities, deep research, or learning emerging from within.
Spiritually: Trust your intuition and explore spiritual truths beyond the material world.
When ill-dignified: Ignorance, repressed emotions, or manipulation behind the veil of mystery.
The Querent's Thoughts
XIX – The Sun
The Sun represents clarity, success, and vitality. It signifies moments of joy, abundance, and realising one's potential.
Symbolism: The Sun shines gloriously over a youthful couple, symbolising innocence, energy, and optimism. A multi-coloured brick wall shelters them, representing protection, growth, vitality, and success. The clear sky suggests obstacles are removed and clarity reigns.
In Relationships: Joyful, open-hearted love. The Sun represents happiness, clear communication, and successful partnerships.
In Work: Success, recognition, and the fulfilment of goals. Positive energy surrounds professional endeavours.
Spiritually: Enlightenment and the ability to see the truth clearly.
When ill-dignified: Arrogance, overconfidence, or a tendency to overlook important details in the pursuit of success.
The Other Person's Thoughts
X – The Wheel of Fortune
The Wheel of Fortune signifies change, cycles, and destiny. The wheel turns, representing the ebb and flow of fortune and the constant cycles of life.
Symbolism: The wheel, surrounded by figures and animals, turns with inevitability. A sphinx sits atop the wheel, symbolising wisdom amidst life's changes. The card reflects the role of fate in the twists and turns of existence.
In Relationships: A shift in relationship dynamics or new opportunities.
In Work: Fortuitous changes or shifts in circumstances, often outside of your control.
Spiritually: Trust in the cycles of life and accept the flow of destiny.
When ill-dignified: Resistance to change or feeling trapped in an unfavourable cycle.
The Querent's Emotions
VII – The Chariot
The Chariot represents victory, control, and determination. It signifies the ability to overcome obstacles and navigate life's challenges through focus and willpower.
Symbolism: The charioteer rides a chariot drawn by two sphinxes, symbolising opposing forces that must be balanced. The chariot is adorned with symbols of conquest, and the figure wears a crown, signifying authority and triumph.
In Relationships: A relationship driven by effort and mutual determination, or one that requires balance and compromise.
In Work: Triumph through perseverance, conquering challenges with focus.
Spiritually: A journey of self-mastery, overcoming inner struggles, and moving forward with purpose.
When ill-dignified: Recklessness, lack of direction, or being pulled in conflicting directions.
The Other Person's Emotions
XI – Strength
Strength symbolises inner strength, courage, and emotional mastery. It represents the power of compassion and grace in overcoming challenges, rather than brute force.
Symbolism: A woman calmly subdues a lion, symbolising the triumph of inner strength over raw power. Her serene expression and gentle hands show mastery through patience and understanding.
In Relationships: Strength to overcome emotional challenges through understanding and patience.
In Work: Success through resilience, determination, and tact, not through force.
Spiritually: Mastery of inner impulses and alignment with higher virtues.
When ill-dignified: Weakness, impatience, or misuse of power in challenging situations.
The Querent's External Stance
IX – The Hermit
The Hermit represents wisdom, introspection, and the search for spiritual clarity. He calls for a retreat into solitude to find deeper meaning.
Symbolism: The Hermit holds a glowing lantern, symbolising divine wisdom. His staff represents the guidance he offers others, while the snake hints at his persuasiveness. His solitary journey through a barren landscape reflects the pursuit of enlightenment.
In Relationships: A time for introspection and finding deeper meaning.
In Work: A need for solitude, mentorship, or stepping back to reassess goals.
Spiritually: A journey of spiritual discovery and the search for deeper truths.
When ill-dignified: Isolation, withdrawal, or stagnation in one's journey.
The Other Person's External Stance
XVIII – The Moon
The Moon signifies illusion, intuition, and the subconscious mind. It represents the mystery of the unknown, hidden fears, and the need to trust inner guidance while navigating uncertainty.
Symbolism: The Moon is depicted with two dogs howling at the moon, symbolising the pull of primal instincts. A crayfish crawls from the water, representing the subconscious emerging into consciousness. The path leads towards a distant horizon, symbolising the journey through confusion to clarity.
In Relationships: Illusions in relationships, emotional confusion, or hidden feelings. Trust your intuition to navigate these uncertain waters.
In Work: Uncertainty or the need to trust your instincts. Hidden factors may influence the situation.
Spiritually: A time to confront fears, listen to your inner voice, and seek clarity in moments of doubt.
When ill-dignified: Deception, illusion, or being misled by false hopes or unclear situations.