The Love Triangle Spread
Difficulty: Complicated
Casually referred to as the Love Triangle, this spread can be used to determine the dynamics of the relationship between three people, regardless of whether romance is involved. This spread is arranged in the form of a hexagram, consisting of several large and small triangles. This tarot spread may seem somewhat complicated, but it is not entirely that difficult.
The first step is to interpret the card for each individual position in the spread. Generally, one might ask about a relationship they are involved in, but this does not have to be the case. Ordinarily, the reader's representative card is #1, their main person of interest is #2, and the other person would be #3.
The second step fills in the downward triangle and involves further examination of the individuals through their views of the other people. Each person has two more cards showing the way they see and relate to the other members of the triangle. For example, Card #6 indicates how Person #3 relates to Person #1, while Card #9 stands for Person #1's attitude toward Person #3.
The next step completes the upward triangle and the hexagram, focusing on cards #10–13. It also completes the many smaller triangles and hints at the potential for each relationship. The final card, #13 can be considered the significator of the reading, which suggests the overall potential for this three-way relationship.
Your Love Triangle Reading
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1: Person #1
The Three of Staves represents progress, expansion, and the results of initial efforts. It signifies a moment of growth where the seeds of potential are beginning to bloom into tangible results.
Symbolism: Three crossing staves evoke stability and forward motion. The slight variations in bark texture symbolise growth, as even though the path is steady, each step brings new lessons and experiences. The harmonious arrangement represents the alignment of efforts, bringing about balance as you move towards your goals.
In Relationships: Expansion of your emotional connection or relationship. The Three of Staves signifies a positive progression, whether in deeper commitment or new shared experiences.
In Work: Growth and advancement in your professional life. This card marks the fruiting of previous efforts and signals that success is on the horizon.
Spiritually: The Three of Staves invites you to continue your spiritual journey confidently, for your path aligns with your higher purpose.
When ill-dignified: A lack of growth or stagnation. This may indicate that you are not making progress or your current actions are not leading to the desired results.
2: Person #2
The Lovers represent choice and the uniting of opposites. It embodies the transformative power of love and the necessity of making meaningful decisions.
Symbolism: The young couple standing beneath Cupid symbolises connection and divine guidance in love. The formal Renaissance clothing and the golden background elevate their union to a sacred level, while the static composition emphasises balance and deliberate choice.
In Relationships: A powerful connection that unites hearts and souls. It may signify a new relationship or a pivotal choice in love.
In Work: A partnership or decision with far-reaching consequences. The Lovers encourage the alignment of values with your work.
Spiritually: The Lovers symbolise unity with your higher self and the harmonious integration of opposites.
When ill-dignified: Temptation, discord, or indecision. It warns against superficial connections or poor choices.
3: Person #3
The Knight of Swords represents action, determination, and intellectual pursuit. This card signifies a person driven by mental clarity and purpose. The Knight of Swords charges forward with a clear objective, often at breakneck speed.
Symbolism: The charging horse and dynamic posture emphasise forward motion and energy. The detailed armour reflects the Knight's preparedness, while the ornate background suggests formality and purpose.
In Relationships: Quick action or intense passion. The Knight of Swords suggests taking decisive steps or charging ahead confidently, but it may also warn against rushing into things.
In Work: A period of fast-paced action or a challenge that requires quick thinking and decisiveness. This card represents the need to act swiftly in your career.
Spiritually: A time of mental clarity and forward motion in your spiritual journey. The Knight of Swords calls you to act on your insights and take bold steps towards spiritual growth.
When ill-dignified: Impulsiveness, recklessness, or aggressive behaviour. The Knight of Swords warns against rushing forward without considering the consequences.
4: Person #1's view of #2
The Six of Swords represents transition, moving forward, and mental clarity. It signifies a physical or mental journey towards calmer waters and a better state of mind. This card suggests moving on from a turbulent situation towards something more peaceful.
Symbolism: The six swords in crossed rows create balance, suggesting a journey that is orderly, though still in motion. The design evokes calm and progress, and the neutral background emphasises the steady movement towards clarity and peace.
In Relationships: Moving on from a difficult relationship or finding peace after emotional turmoil. The Six of Swords represents leaving the past behind and seeking harmony in new emotional terrain.
In Work: Transitioning to a new phase in your professional life, possibly leaving a challenging job or situation for a more peaceful and fulfilling one.
Spiritually: A period of spiritual transition and growth. The Six of Swords encourages you to leave behind old spiritual patterns that no longer serve you and seek inner peace and understanding.
When ill-dignified: Escaping from problems without resolving them or avoiding necessary emotional work. The Six of Swords warns against running away from unresolved issues.
5: Person #2's view of #3
The Five of Staves represents conflict, competition, and challenge. It symbolises the tension that arises when different forces or perspectives clash, but also the opportunity for growth through these struggles.
Symbolism: The five staffs crossing at various angles evoke discord, but the composition remains visually balanced. This dynamic tension suggests the conflict is not necessarily destructive, but a part of the process of growth and resolution. The flowers in the background underscore that this challenge is a natural, even necessary part of the journey.
In Relationships: Tension or conflict may arise, but this card suggests that healthy competition or differing viewpoints can lead to growth if managed properly.
In Work: Competition, challenges, or rivalry may be present. The Five of Staves urges you to stay focused and resilient, as this conflict can sharpen your skills and propel you forward.
Spiritually: Conflicts or challenges may arise, but they are opportunities to refine your beliefs and strengthen your character.
When ill-dignified: Escalating conflict or unnecessary competition. This could indicate that the struggle is becoming unproductive, leading to frustration or exhaustion.
6: Person #3's view of #1
The Nine of Cups represents emotional contentment, satisfaction, and the fulfilment of desires. It indicates a time of emotional happiness and the realisation of personal goals.
Symbolism: The nine chalices are arranged in a grid, symbolising balance and fulfilment. Their elaborate designs reflect the richness of the emotional experience, while the uniformity of the arrangement suggests completeness and stability.
In Relationships: Emotional fulfilment and contentment. This card signifies the realisation of romantic dreams or a period of joy and connection with a partner.
In Work: Professional satisfaction and the achievement of goals. The Nine of Cups represents a time of success and personal accomplishment in your work life.
Spiritually: Emotional harmony and spiritual fulfilment. The Nine of Cups invites you to celebrate your spiritual achievements and the peace you've cultivated.
When ill-dignified: Complacency, overindulgence, or taking things for granted. The Nine of Cups warns against resting on your laurels or neglecting personal growth.
7: Person #2's view of #1
The Chariot symbolises determination, willpower, and triumph through self-discipline. It represents the ability to move forward and achieve success by mastering conflicting forces.
Symbolism: The stationary horses reflect control rather than speed, while the charioteer's detailed attire and golden background emphasise victory and refinement. The calm pose suggests strength in discipline over chaos.
In Relationships: A time to take charge of your relationship's direction. The Chariot signals progress but warns against domination.
In Work: Triumph through focus and determination. It's a call to harness all resources and overcome obstacles confidently.
Spiritually: The Chariot encourages the mastery of inner conflicts to progress along the spiritual path.
When ill-dignified: Loss of direction, lack of control, or excessive force. It warns against being carried away by ambition or unchecked emotions.
8: Person #3's view of #2
The Four of Swords represents rest, recuperation, and mental recovery. It signifies a need to step back and regain mental and emotional energy. This card speaks to the importance of rest and finding peace after a period of mental or emotional exhaustion.
Symbolism: The four swords arranged symmetrically evoke order, rest, and structure. Their placement suggests a time for reflection, calm, and withdrawal. The flowery background enhances the peaceful atmosphere, encouraging a pause for recovery.
In Relationships: A time to take a break from a relationship or to focus on self-care. The Four of Swords invites you to restore emotional equilibrium and reflect on your feelings.
In Work: Rest or reflection in your professional life. This card may suggest taking a break or re-evaluating your career goals to prevent burnout.
Spiritually: A time to retreat from the hustle and bustle of life to reconnect with your spiritual self. The Four of Swords calls for reflection and peace to heal your mind and spirit.
When ill-dignified: Withdrawal, avoidance, or mental stagnation. The Four of Swords warns against becoming detached or disconnected from your emotions or responsibilities.
9: Person #1's view of #3
The Marseille version is filling in for this missing card. The King of Cups represents emotional mastery and wisdom. He is the embodiment of emotional intelligence and the ability to control one's feelings while offering support to others. This card symbolises leadership in emotional and spiritual matters.
Symbolism: The King sits on his throne holding his cup with dignity. His calm demeanour and thoughtful expression reflect his mastery over his emotions and ability to lead with compassion and understanding.
In Relationships: Emotional maturity and stability. The King of Cups signifies a steady, wise, and compassionate partner who provides guidance and balance.
In Work: Mastery in your profession, particularly in areas that require emotional intelligence or leadership. The King of Cups advises calm, measured decision-making and emotional resilience.
Spiritually: Mastery over your spiritual and emotional path. The King of Cups encourages you to use your wisdom and emotional balance to lead and guide others.
When ill-dignified: Emotional suppression, manipulation, or detachment. The King of Cups warns against becoming emotionally distant or using your emotional wisdom for control or selfish purposes.
10: Overall relationship between persons #1 and #2
The Two of Coins signifies balance, adaptability, and juggling multiple responsibilities. It represents the need to find harmony between different areas of your life, such as work and home, or managing various projects. This card encourages you to be flexible and adaptable, finding ways to keep everything in motion.
Symbolism: The symmetrical placement of the coins highlights balance and duality. The harmonious design suggests that while there is a need to manage different aspects of life, it is possible to do so successfully with care and focus.
In Relationships: Balancing responsibilities. This card suggests you must strike a balance to maintain a stable and fulfilling partnership.
In Work: A time to juggle multiple roles or responsibilities at work. The Two of Coins advises flexibility and time management to ensure success.
Spiritually: Finding the balance between the material and spiritual aspects of life. The Two of Coins encourages you to integrate both into a cohesive whole.
When ill-dignified: Overwhelm, imbalance, or struggling to manage responsibilities. The Two of Coins warns against neglecting one area of life for another.
11: Overall relationship between persons #2 and #3
The Knave of Swords represents curiosity, vigilance, and mental agility. This card signifies the start of a new intellectual pursuit or a moment of learning, often accompanied by a sharp, inquisitive mind. It speaks to the energy of exploration and the readiness to face challenges with focus and determination.
Symbolism: The Knave's posture and sword exude readiness and focus, while the detailed metallic-patterned background suggests the richness of intellectual pursuits. The vibrant green ground emphasises the freshness of the journey ahead.
In Relationships: Intellectual curiosity or a new phase where communication and understanding are key. The Knave of Swords suggests clear-headed exploration of emotions or ideas.
In Work: New beginnings in your professional life, especially in areas that require intellectual skills, learning, or quick thinking. This card represents engaging with fresh challenges.
Spiritually: A time of mental exploration and learning within your spiritual path. The Knave of Swords invites you to be alert and receptive to new ideas.
When ill-dignified: Overthinking, gossip, or immature behaviour. The Knave of Swords warns against acting impulsively or lacking focus in your pursuits.
12: Overall relationship between persons #1 and #3
The Two of Swords represents a choice or decision that requires careful consideration. It speaks to moments of duality, indecision, or conflict where one must weigh their options. The card often appears when you are at a crossroads, and the need for mental balance is urgent.
Symbolism: The crossed swords signify a stalemate or a moment of pause, where no action is being taken yet, but the tension is palpable. The symmetrical composition emphasises balance and the need for equal consideration of both options before deciding.
In Relationships: A tough choice or an emotional conflict where you may avoid making a decision. The Two of Swords urges you to confront your emotions and choose the path that aligns with your desires.
In Work: Facing a critical decision in your professional life. The Two of Swords advises careful evaluation of all options before proceeding.
Spiritually: A moment of inner conflict or uncertainty in your path. This card calls for introspection and a balance between logic and intuition when navigating your spiritual journey.
When ill-dignified: Indecision, avoidance of the truth, or refusal to confront an issue. The Two of Swords suggests that procrastination or ignoring a situation will only prolong the discomfort.
13: Overall 3-way Relationship
The Eight of Staves represents speed, movement, and swift action. It signals rapid progress and the need to act suddenly to seize opportunities.
Symbolism: The eight staves arranged diagonally and flowing in two directions convey a strong sense of momentum and forward motion. The flowery pale tan background allows the focus to remain on the energy and speed represented by the staves, urging you to move quickly and decisively.
In Relationships: Rapid movement or sudden developments. This could indicate fast progress, new developments, or even a sudden romantic spark.
In Work: Swift action or an unexpected opportunity in your career. The Eight of Staves suggests now is the time to act quickly to capitalise on momentum and make the most of what comes your way.
Spiritually: Rapid spiritual growth or sudden insight. The Eight of Staves signals that clarity and enlightenment are on the horizon, and you must act swiftly to harness these energies.
When ill-dignified: Hastiness, impulsiveness, or lack of foresight. This warns against rushing into decisions or actions without considering the consequences.