Relationship Spread #2
Difficulty: Easy
This relationship spread focuses more on the common ground of the relationship, with three cards in the middle column showing the common ground. The middle column essentially displays the past, present, and future of the relationship.
Card #4 stands for the common base of the relationship, which may be thought of as the past events which have shaped their characters, bringing them together. The current connection that binds them together is Card #3, indicating the values shared. Card #7 implies the common goals that would keep the pair together moving into the future.
The columns on either side show what each partner brings to the table. Remember, relationships need not be romantic, and the partners could even be groups rather than individuals. In this layout, the other person is on the left-hand side and the reader on the right.
Cards #1 & #2 indicate the separate personalities of each member of the relationship. These cards form a sort of bridge with the cards beneath them, #5 & #6, which show the qualities that each partner offers the other person, and thus to the relationship as a whole.
Your Relationship #2 Reading
Mutual Goals |
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Your Qualities |
Connection (Present) |
Others' Qualities |
What You Bring |
Common Base (Past) |
What They Bring  |
7: Mutual Goals
XIV – Temperance
Temperance represents harmony, balance, and the art of blending opposites. It suggests a time of calm, careful moderation, and the synthesis of differing energies into a cohesive whole.
Symbolism: Pouring liquid from one vessel to another symbolises the balance and exchange between opposing forces—emotion and intellect, fire and water, inner and outer worlds. Her graceful posture and tranquil demeanour indicate deliberate action, emphasising that peace comes through moderation. The golden background elevates balance to the divine level, suggesting that harmony is sacred.
In Relationships: Temperance encourages balance in relationships. It asks for patience and moderation in interactions, fostering an environment where both partners can harmonise their differences.
In Work: Success comes through collaboration and maintaining equilibrium. This card advises you to blend your talents with those of others, seeking compromise rather than extremes.
Spiritually: Temperance represents spiritual equilibrium. It calls for integrating the material and spiritual worlds, balancing one's desires and needs for peace and alignment.
When ill-dignified: Imbalance, excess, or a lack of harmony. This could indicate dissonance in relationships, career, or spiritual practice, warning against overindulgence or extremes.
3: Connection
King of Coins
The King of Coins signifies mastery of wealth, business, and material resources. He is a figure of authority and stability, using his intelligence and experience to build lasting wealth. This card speaks to leadership, responsibility, and achieving long-term financial success.
Symbolism: The King's commanding posture and golden robes reflect his mastery and authority in the material world. The coin he holds symbolises his wealth, and the background design speaks to the regal nature of his position.
In Relationships: A stable partner focused on creating long-term prosperity for their family. The King of Coins encourages a mature, responsible approach to relationships.
In Work: Mastery in your career or business, especially in financial management. The King of Coins represents achieving a position of leadership or success through wisdom and effort.
Spiritually: Mastery over your material world and the wisdom to balance it with your spiritual life. The King of Coins suggests stability and prosperity grounded in wisdom.
When ill-dignified: Materialism, greed, or a desire for control. The King of Coins warns against focusing only on wealth at the expense of relationships or spiritual growth.
4: Common Base
Ace of Cups
The Ace of Cups signifies the birth of emotions, spiritual renewal, and the flow of abundance. It represents the opening of the heart, the initiation of emotional healing, and the potential for deep, transformative love. This card invites you to embrace your emotions with openness and trust, knowing that your emotional reservoir is being replenished.
Symbolism: The ornate chalice symbolises emotional receptivity and divine blessing. The stream of water flowing from its rim represents the endless flow of love and creativity, while the simple background emphasises the purity of this new emotional beginning. The card evokes feelings of peace, connection, and the potential for emotional fulfilment.
In Relationships: The beginning of a new, emotionally fulfilling relationship or a deepening of connection with someone already in your life. This is a time of emotional renewal and openness.
In Work: The birth of new opportunities that align with your passions and creativity. It signals a time to trust your intuition and pursue work that brings you joy.
Spiritually: A call to open your heart and embrace spiritual growth. The Ace of Cups encourages you to explore your inner world and find healing and emotional wholeness.
When ill-dignified: Emotional blockages, closed off from new experiences, or difficulty trusting emotions. This suggests there is a resistance to embracing emotional flow.
2: Your Qualities
X – The Wheel of Fortune
The Wheel of Fortune signifies cycles, fate, and the ever-changing nature of life. It reminds us of the importance of adaptability and acceptance in the face of change.
Symbolism: Figures ascending and descending on the wheel represent the ups and downs of life. The patterns add richness to the composition, while the golden background underscores the divine and inevitable nature of change.
In Relationships: A turning point in relationships, whether for better or worse. The Wheel reminds us to embrace change.
In Work: Unexpected opportunities or setbacks. It advises adaptability and resilience in navigating shifting circumstances.
Spiritually: The Wheel teaches surrender to the cycles of life and faith in the greater plan of the universe.
When ill-dignified: Resistance to change, bad luck, or repeating cycles. It warns against clinging to the past or fearing the future.
1: Their Qualities
Knave of Cups
The Knave of Cups represents new emotional beginnings, curiosity, and intuition. It signifies the start of a new emotional journey, often marked by creativity, exploration, and open-heartedness.
Symbolism: The youthful figure holding a cup symbolises emotional openness and the willingness to explore new feelings and ideas. The vibrant green background contrasts with the figure's more muted robes, indicating that while this journey is new, it is rooted in emotional understanding.
In Relationships: A new romantic adventure, or the beginning of emotional exploration. This card signals fresh beginnings and open-hearted communication.
In Work: Creative opportunities or a new phase in your professional life. The Knave of Cups suggests following your intuition and embracing new emotional connections in your work.
Spiritually: A time of exploration and discovery. This card invites you to listen to your inner voice and follow your emotional intuition on your spiritual journey.
When ill-dignified: Emotional immaturity, unrealistic expectations, or a lack of direction. The Knave of Cups warns against rushing into things without considering the consequences.
6: What You Bring
Three of Staves
5: What They Bring
Queen of Staves
The Queen of Staves represents charisma, confidence, and leadership. She embodies the qualities of grace, strength, and warmth, guiding others with her inner fire.
Symbolism: The Queen, holding her staff with both hands, radiates elegance and power. Her rich gown and contemplative expression show a balance between intellect and intuition. The textured tapestry-like background reinforces her high status, while her poised presence speaks to her command of both the material and spiritual realms.
In Relationships: A strong and supportive presence. The Queen of Staves suggests you bring warmth, confidence, and leadership to your partnership.
In Work: Leadership, creativity, and confidence in your work. This card signals that you are in a position of authority, capable of inspiring and guiding others.
Spiritually: The Queen of Staves encourages you to embrace your spiritual strength and leadership, trusting your intuition and inner wisdom.
When ill-dignified: Dominance, arrogance, or possessiveness. This card warns against being controlling or letting your confidence turn into stubbornness.