Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

	You		Other Person
Thought	Nine of Coins		XIII – Death
Emotion	King of Coins	The Significator Seven of Cups	Knight of Coins (artwork from another Visconti deck)
External Stance	XV – The Devil (Lost card, substituted here)		Three of Staves

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Seven of Cups

The Seven of Cups represents choices, illusions, and dreams. It speaks to a time of possibility and decision-making, where many options are available, but it can also indicate confusion or a tendency to chase unattainable fantasies. This card invites you to assess your options.

Symbolism: The seven chalices, arranged asymmetrically, reflect the idea of varied possibilities, each with its own allure. The uneven arrangement symbolises the unpredictability of choice and the potential for distraction or confusion. The decoration of the chalices suggests each option carries its own emotional weight.

In Relationships: A period of many choices in your romantic life, but also a time to be cautious of unrealistic expectations or illusions. This card asks you to consider your options.

In Work: Multiple career paths or opportunities are available, but you may feel overwhelmed or unsure which one to pursue. The Seven of Cups advises introspection and discernment in your decision-making process.

Spiritually: A time to evaluate spiritual paths and opportunities. The Seven of Cups invites you to look beyond illusions and focus on what resonates with your soul.

When ill-dignified: Confusion, unrealistic expectations, or escapism. The Seven of Cups warns against being overwhelmed by too many choices or falling for empty promises.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Nine of Coins

The Nine of Coins represents self-sufficiency, abundance, and material comfort. It signifies a time of enjoyment, where hard work has paid off, and you can enjoy the fruits of your labour. This card celebrates the pleasures of luxury, refinement, and personal achievement.

Symbolism: The stacked arrangement of nine coins reflects abundance and harmony. The stable design conveys accomplishment, stability, and satisfaction.

In Relationships: A relationship that is self-sufficient and fulfilling. The Nine of Coins suggests enjoying the fruits of love and mutual respect, with a sense of independence.

In Work: Financial success and personal achievement. This card represents enjoying the rewards of your hard work and attaining a comfortable, stable position in your career.

Spiritually: Fulfilment and the joy of having reached a place of peace and abundance in your spiritual journey.

When ill-dignified: Over-indulgence, isolation, or dependence. The Nine of Coins warns against relying too heavily on material comforts or becoming disconnected from others.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

XIII – Death

Death signifies the inevitable conclusion of one cycle and the heralding of another. It's a powerful symbol of transformation, renewal, and the necessity of endings to foster new beginnings.

Symbolism: The skeletal figure with a scythe represents the impartial and unrelenting nature of time and change. The image of fallen bodies suggests the end of a phase, but the subtle floral designs interwoven with the scene offer hope, symbolising rebirth and the cyclical nature of existence. The golden background emphasises the universal truth of transformation and the inevitability of all life cycles.

In Relationships: This card suggests the end of an old emotional pattern or relationship, clearing the way for renewal. Let go of what no longer serves you to make space for new, healthier connections.

In Work: Death marks the close of one professional chapter. It's a time for endings, making way for new opportunities and growth. Embrace the transition instead of fearing it.

Spiritually: Death calls for a transformation, letting go of old beliefs or attachments. Spiritual rebirth requires an embrace of the unknown and a surrender to the cycles of existence.

When ill-dignified: Resistance to change, stagnation, and fear of letting go. This can manifest as clinging to the past or an inability to move forward, hindering growth.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

King of Coins

The King of Coins signifies mastery of wealth, business, and material resources. He is a figure of authority and stability, using his intelligence and experience to build lasting wealth. This card speaks to leadership, responsibility, and achieving long-term financial success.

Symbolism: The King's commanding posture and golden robes reflect his mastery and authority in the material world. The coin he holds symbolises his wealth, and the background design speaks to the regal nature of his position.

In Relationships: A stable partner focused on creating long-term prosperity for their family. The King of Coins encourages a mature, responsible approach to relationships.

In Work: Mastery in your career or business, especially in financial management. The King of Coins represents achieving a position of leadership or success through wisdom and effort.

Spiritually: Mastery over your material world and the wisdom to balance it with your spiritual life. The King of Coins suggests stability and prosperity grounded in wisdom.

When ill-dignified: Materialism, greed, or a desire for control. The King of Coins warns against focusing only on wealth at the expense of relationships or spiritual growth.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Knight of Coins (artwork from another Visconti deck)

The Knight of Coins represents diligence, responsibility, and slow, steady progress. It symbolises a person dedicated to their work, committed to long-term goals, and willing to work hard to achieve success. This card speaks to patience and perseverance.

Symbolism: The steady horse and calm posture reflect the Knight's disciplined nature. The horse's grounded movement contrasts with the dynamic energy of other Knights, highlighting the Knight of Coins' deliberate pace.

In Relationships: Steady, dependable progress. The Knight of Coins represents a relationship based on responsibility, loyalty, and commitment.

In Work: Diligence and hard work towards career goals. The Knight of Coins emphasises patience and consistency in achieving professional success.

Spiritually: A time of steady spiritual progress. The Knight of Coins invites you to commit to your spiritual practices with consistency and patience.

When ill-dignified: Stagnation, stubbornness, or an inability to adapt. The Knight of Coins warns against becoming too rigid or focused on minor details, preventing growth.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

XV – The Devil (Lost card, substituted here)

This card no longer exists, so the Marseille version is filling in. The Devil represents bondage, temptation, and the shadow self. It highlights the chains we impose upon ourselves through fear, obsession, or indulgence, urging us to confront these darker aspects to reclaim our freedom.

Symbolism: The Devil embodies primal instincts and the seduction of material or carnal desires. The chained figures symbolise voluntary entrapment, their loose bindings reminding us of the ability to escape our vices. The pedestal signifies false power, while the scene hints at the potential for redemption through self-awareness.

In Relationships: The Devil warns of unhealthy attachments, jealousy, or manipulative relationships. It challenges you to examine whether passion has turned into obsession.

In Work: This card can signify being trapped in a toxic work environment, greed, or overreliance on material success. It urges you to reflect on what fulfils you.

Spiritually: The Devil calls for self-awareness and shadow work. Confronting your inner fears or desires will lead to personal liberation.

When ill-dignified: When reversed or ill-dignified, the Devil signifies breaking free from constraints, overcoming addiction, or realising what binds you.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Three of Staves

The Three of Staves represents progress, expansion, and the results of initial efforts. It signifies a moment of growth where the seeds of potential are beginning to bloom into tangible results.

Symbolism: Three crossing staves evoke stability and forward motion. The slight variations in bark texture symbolise growth, as even though the path is steady, each step brings new lessons and experiences. The harmonious arrangement represents the alignment of efforts, bringing about balance as you move towards your goals.

In Relationships: Expansion of your emotional connection or relationship. The Three of Staves signifies a positive progression, whether in deeper commitment or new shared experiences.

In Work: Growth and advancement in your professional life. This card marks the fruiting of previous efforts and signals that success is on the horizon.

Spiritually: The Three of Staves invites you to continue your spiritual journey confidently, for your path aligns with your higher purpose.

When ill-dignified: A lack of growth or stagnation. This may indicate that you are not making progress or your current actions are not leading to the desired results.