Relationship Spread #1
Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
You |
Other Person |
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Thought |
 Knight of Swords |
 III – The Empress |
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Emotion |
 0 – The Fool |
The Significator  XXI – The World |
 Six of Coins |
External Stance |
 Six of Cups |
 IX – The Hermit |
The Significator
XXI – The World
The World represents completion, wholeness, and the harmonious integration of all aspects of life. It is the last card of the Major Arcana, signalling the end of one journey and the beginning of another.
Symbolism: The two ethereal figures holding the globe or portal represent the union of duality and the achievement of balance. The rolling plains and distant mountains beneath the golden sky symbolise the vast potential of the world, and the figures' gesture of offering suggests a celebration of accomplishment. The card evokes cosmic harmony, completion, and the endless cycles of existence.
In Relationships: The World signifies a complete and fulfilling relationship, one where both partners are in harmony and balanced with each other. It's a time of celebration and unity.
In Work: Completion of a major goal or project. The World indicates the successful culmination of efforts, with new horizons opening up in your professional life.
Spiritually: A time of wholeness. The World signifies a sense of fulfilment and oneness with the universe, representing the final stage of spiritual evolution.
When ill-dignified: Incompletion, being stuck, or an inability to move forward. This card warns of a lack of closure or an unfinished journey that hinders your growth.
The Querent's Thoughts
Knight of Swords
The Knight of Swords represents action, determination, and intellectual pursuit. This card signifies a person driven by mental clarity and purpose. The Knight of Swords charges forward with a clear objective, often at breakneck speed.
Symbolism: The charging horse and dynamic posture emphasise forward motion and energy. The detailed armour reflects the Knight's preparedness, while the ornate background suggests formality and purpose.
In Relationships: Quick action or intense passion. The Knight of Swords suggests taking decisive steps or charging ahead confidently, but it may also warn against rushing into things.
In Work: A period of fast-paced action or a challenge that requires quick thinking and decisiveness. This card represents the need to act swiftly in your career.
Spiritually: A time of mental clarity and forward motion in your spiritual journey. The Knight of Swords calls you to act on your insights and take bold steps towards spiritual growth.
When ill-dignified: Impulsiveness, recklessness, or aggressive behaviour. The Knight of Swords warns against rushing forward without considering the consequences.
The Other Person's Thoughts
III – The Empress
The Empress symbolises abundance, creativity, and nurturing energy. She represents the generative force of nature and the ability to create and sustain growth, both literally and figuratively.
Symbolism: The Empress's sceptre and crown symbolise her authority, while her shield connects her to the Visconti family lineage. The floral embroidery on her gown reflects her connection to nature and fertility. The golden background underscores her divine and regal status.
In Relationships: A time of emotional abundance and nurturing. The Empress signals love, harmony, and growth.
In Work: Creative projects flourish under the Empress's guidance. She encourages nurturing ideas and building strong foundations.
Spiritually: The Empress represents the divine feminine, inviting the seeker to embrace growth and connect with nature's rhythms.
When ill-dignified: Stagnation, overindulgence, or a smothering presence in relationships.
The Querent's Emotions
0 – The Fool
The Fool symbolises new beginnings, innocence, and an open-hearted journey. He represents the spirit of adventure and trust in the unknown, unburdened by experiences or material concerns. His path is one of discovery, where curiosity leads the way.
Symbolism: The vagabond's tattered clothing reflects detachment from societal norms, while his staff and bundle suggest minimal baggage—both physical and emotional. The golden background highlights his eternal and universal journey. His carefree, open-mouthed expression conveys both the naivety of youth and the wisdom of freedom from expectations.
In Relationships: A signal to take risks or approach relationships with spontaneity and trust. It cautions against naivety or reckless behaviour.
In Work: An invitation to embrace a new path or project with an open mind. The Fool encourages experimentation and trust in one's instincts.
Spiritually: The Fool represents faith in the journey ahead and the courage to step into the unknown. He invites the seeker to trust the divine flow.
When ill-dignified: Foolishness, poor judgement, or recklessness. It warns against ignoring practicalities or rushing ahead blindly.
The Other Person's Emotions
Six of Coins
The Six of Coins represents generosity, charity, and balance in giving and receiving. It speaks to the flow of wealth, where resources are shared. This card emphasises the importance of fair exchange and the joy of helping others.
Symbolism: The even arrangement of the six coins suggests balance and fairness. The vertical alignment represents the flow of giving and receiving, highlighting harmony in financial or material exchanges.
In Relationships: A balanced relationship where both partners give and receive equally. The Six of Coins encourages acts of kindness, generosity, and mutual support.
In Work: Financial generosity or fair exchanges at work. This card suggests that assisting others can bring abundance and harmony into your career.
Spiritually: The spiritual law of giving and receiving. The Six of Coins encourages you to give freely, knowing that your actions will come back to you in time.
When ill-dignified: Imbalance in giving or receiving, manipulation, or exploitation. The Six of Coins warns against selfishness or using generosity to manipulate others.
The Querent's External Stance
Six of Cups
The Six of Cups represents nostalgia, memory, and emotional healing. It suggests a return to simpler times, either through revisiting the past or through healing that allows you to reconnect with the joy and innocence of youth. This card speaks to emotional renewal through reflection and reconciliation.
Symbolism: The six chalices arranged in two neat rows represent order, structure, and continuity. The card's composition evokes feelings of harmony and nostalgia, with continuity between past and present. The ornate designs on the chalices emphasise the beauty of memories and the emotional depth of this reflection.
In Relationships: Reconnection with a past relationship or rekindling old emotional bonds. The Six of Cups speaks to the sweetness of nostalgia and the healing power of revisiting old joys.
In Work: Reflecting on experiences in your career and using them to inform future decisions. This card can also suggest a time to revisit childhood dreams or talents.
Spiritually: A return to emotional balance through spiritual healing. The Six of Cups invites you to connect with the joy and simplicity of your spiritual roots.
When ill-dignified: Living too much in the past, or being stuck in memories. This card warns against becoming too nostalgic and neglecting the present.
The Other Person's External Stance
IX – The Hermit
The Hermit symbolises introspection, solitude, and the search for wisdom. He represents the retreat from worldly distractions to find enlightenment within.
Symbolism: The Hermit's lantern lights the way, symbolising inner guidance. His heavy robes and staff reflect humility and steadfastness, while the muted tones and golden accents emphasise the sacred nature of his solitary journey.
In Relationships: A period of introspection. The Hermit may suggest a need for space or reflection before moving forward.
In Work: Time to step back and assess your goals. The Hermit advises seeking clarity and wisdom before making decisions.
Spiritually: The Hermit represents the inner search for truth and enlightenment through meditation and solitude.
When ill-dignified: Isolation, withdrawal, or a refusal to seek help. It warns against becoming too introspective or disconnected.