Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

	You		Other Person
Thought	Knave of Staves		Two of Cups
Emotion	IX – The Hermit	The Significator Four of Staves	Five of Coins
External Stance	XVI – The Tower (Lost card, substituted here)		Three of Coins

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Four of Staves

The Four of Staves represents completion, stability, and celebration. It signifies a time of solid foundations, harmony, and joy in both personal and professional endeavours.

Symbolism: The four staves, arranged in a balanced, crossing pattern, suggest structure and completion. The subtle detailing reflects refinement and attention to detail, while the flowery backdrop emphasises the simplicity and elegance of the accomplishment. The card's composition signifies a time to celebrate what has been achieved and appreciate the stability now in place.

In Relationships: A time of stability and celebration within your relationship. The Four of Staves suggests harmony, engagement, or even marriage. It's a time to enjoy the fruits of shared efforts.

In Work: Achievement and recognition. This card signifies the completion of a project, a successful milestone, or the solidification of your professional position.

Spiritually: A sense of spiritual fulfilment and peace. The Four of Staves indicates that you are grounded in your spiritual journey, enjoying the harmony you've created within.

When ill-dignified: Complacency or an inability to move beyond the current structure. It may indicate the stability you've achieved has become stagnant, or you've lost sight of future growth.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Knave of Staves

The Knave of Staves represents youthful enthusiasm, exploration, and new beginnings. This card signifies a time of discovery and creative energy, where the world is seen with fresh eyes.

Symbolism: The Knave, holding a staff and standing confidently, embodies the spirit of adventure and curiosity. The lush green ground beneath their feet suggests new beginnings rooted in fertile possibilities, while their elaborate, dark robes signify maturity and depth despite their youth. The golden background emphasises their potential and promise.

In Relationships: A new, exciting chapter in your romantic life. The Knave of Staves suggests the beginning of a passionate connection or the rekindling of youthful excitement.

In Work: A time of learning and exploration in your professional life. The Knave of Staves indicates being on the verge of an exciting new venture or creative project.

Spiritually: The beginning of a new spiritual path or awakening. This card invites you to approach your spiritual journey with open-mindedness and enthusiasm.

When ill-dignified: Immaturity, impulsiveness, or lack of direction. This suggests you may be rushing into something without considering the consequences.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Two of Cups

The Two of Cups represents mutual love, partnership, and emotional harmony. It reflects the balance between two individuals, suggesting that both partners offer their hearts equally. This card symbolises the harmonious exchange of energy and emotional support.

Symbolism: The two chalices, positioned one above the other, reflect equality and mutual respect. The designs on the cups show that while there are differences, they complement each other perfectly. The symmetrical arrangement emphasises the theme of balance and unity in relationships.

In Relationships: Deep connection and mutual understanding with a partner. The Two of Cups signals emotional balance and union, whether in a romantic partnership or a close friendship.

In Work: A strong, supportive collaboration or partnership that brings emotional fulfilment and success. This could represent a productive relationship where both parties work in harmony.

Spiritually: Union with a higher power or deeper connection to the divine. This card suggests emotional balance and spiritual partnership.

When ill-dignified: Disharmony, imbalanced relationships, or emotional disconnection. The Two of Cups can warn of emotional misunderstandings or an unbalanced partnership.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

IX – The Hermit

The Hermit symbolises introspection, solitude, and the search for wisdom. He represents the retreat from worldly distractions to find enlightenment within.

Symbolism: The Hermit's lantern lights the way, symbolising inner guidance. His heavy robes and staff reflect humility and steadfastness, while the muted tones and golden accents emphasise the sacred nature of his solitary journey.

In Relationships: A period of introspection. The Hermit may suggest a need for space or reflection before moving forward.

In Work: Time to step back and assess your goals. The Hermit advises seeking clarity and wisdom before making decisions.

Spiritually: The Hermit represents the inner search for truth and enlightenment through meditation and solitude.

When ill-dignified: Isolation, withdrawal, or a refusal to seek help. It warns against becoming too introspective or disconnected.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Five of Coins

The Five of Coins signifies hardship, financial loss, and feelings of exclusion. It represents times of struggle or difficult circumstances, often related to material or financial difficulties. However, it also highlights the importance of seeking help and support during challenging times.

Symbolism: The crossing arrangement of the five coins creates a sense of imbalance and struggle. Their positioning highlights uncertainty and the need for external help or support.

In Relationships: Feeling abandoned or unsupported. The Five of Coins suggests financial or emotional hardship and the need for mutual care and compassion.

In Work: Financial difficulty or job insecurity. This card calls for resourcefulness and suggests seeking help or guidance during tough times.

Spiritually: A sense of spiritual poverty or abandonment. The Five of Coins reminds you to seek support and remember that even in difficult times, there is a way forward.

When ill-dignified: Isolation, despair, or neglect. The Five of Coins warns against wallowing in difficulty without reaching out for assistance or hope.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

XVI – The Tower (Lost card, substituted here)

This card no longer exists, so the Marseille version is filling in. The Tower symbolises upheaval, sudden change, and the destruction of false structures. It heralds moments of revelation that, while shocking, clear the way for growth and truth.

Symbolism: The lightning bolt represents divine intervention shattering illusions and falsehoods. The crumbling tower signifies the collapse of unstable foundations. The falling figures illustrate vulnerability and the inevitability of change, while the broken shield reflects the fragility of ego and human constructs. Despite the chaos, the background suggests this upheaval is necessary for enlightenment.

In Relationships: The Tower signals a sudden shake-up, possibly a breakup or revelation. Though painful, it clears the way for honesty and authenticity.

In Work: Expect abrupt changes, such as a job loss or major restructuring. Though unsettling, this card pushes you to re-evaluate your priorities and rebuild stronger foundations.

Spiritually: The Tower challenges false beliefs and spiritual stagnation. A moment of crisis will lead to profound insight and transformation.

When ill-dignified: When reversed or ill-dignified, the Tower suggests avoiding necessary change, delaying the inevitable, or clinging to a crumbling situation. It warns that resisting transformation can lead to prolonged suffering.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Three of Coins

The Three of Coins symbolises collaboration, craftsmanship, and the value of teamwork. It represents working together to achieve a common goal, emphasising the importance of skill, effort, and recognition of individual contributions to a larger project.

Symbolism: The row of coins emphasises teamwork and synergy. The design suggests that when different talents and skills come together, they create something greater than the sum of their parts.

In Relationships: Collaboration and teamwork. The Three of Coins encourages building together, sharing responsibilities, and valuing each other's contributions.

In Work: A time to work with others towards a shared goal. The Three of Coins suggests that your efforts will be recognised, and teamwork leads to success.

Spiritually: Spiritual collaboration and mentorship. The Three of Coins may indicate working with others on a shared spiritual path, learning from collective wisdom.

When ill-dignified: Lack of cooperation, poor teamwork, or failure to appreciate the value of others' contributions. The Three of Coins warns against working in isolation or undervaluing collaboration.