The Love Triangle Spread
Difficulty: Complicated
Casually referred to as the Love Triangle, this spread can be used to determine the dynamics of the relationship between three people, regardless of whether romance is involved. This spread is arranged in the form of a hexagram, consisting of several large and small triangles. This tarot spread may seem somewhat complicated, but it is not entirely that difficult.
The first step is to interpret the card for each individual position in the spread. Generally, one might ask about a relationship they are involved in, but this does not have to be the case. Ordinarily, the reader's representative card is #1, their main person of interest is #2, and the other person would be #3.
The second step fills in the downward triangle and involves further examination of the individuals through their views of the other people. Each person has two more cards showing the way they see and relate to the other members of the triangle. For example, Card #6 indicates how Person #3 relates to Person #1, while Card #9 stands for Person #1's attitude toward Person #3.
The next step completes the upward triangle and the hexagram, focusing on cards #10–13. It also completes the many smaller triangles and hints at the potential for each relationship. The final card, #13 can be considered the significator of the reading, which suggests the overall potential for this three-way relationship.
Your Love Triangle Reading
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1: Person #1
(Sun, Resh)
The Sun radiates with the energy of vitality, clarity, and triumphant renewal. Associated with Resh, the face, this card symbolises self-awareness, illumination, and the expression of the inner light. The Sun, as the central celestial body, embodies life, growth, and divine purpose.
The imagery is vibrant and joyous, as the golden sun blazes in the sky, surrounded by rays of light that fill the scene with warmth and illumination. Beneath it, twin children dance in a fertile landscape, representing innocence, harmony, and the unification of opposites. The background is lush with fields and flowers, a testament to the creative and nurturing power of the sun's energy. The card radiates an undeniable sense of triumph and clarity.
In Relationships: The Sun signifies joy, harmony, and mutual understanding. It brings light to connections, encouraging open communication and the sharing of love without reservation.
In Work: This card represents achievement and the realisation of goals. You are advised to embrace your success and lead confidently.
Spiritually: The Sun symbolises enlightenment, integrating the self, and realising your divine purpose. It calls you to step into your power and radiate your truth confidently.
When ill-dignified: The Sun warns of arrogance, egotism, or overexposure. You are advised to balance your confidence with humility and guard against burning out your energy.
2: Person #2
Astrological Correspondence: Sun in Capricorn
The Four of Disks (Power) represents the solidification and consolidation of material wealth and security. The imagery of four square disks arranged symmetrically evokes stability, emphasising the creation of a solid foundation and the control one has over their material circumstances. This card symbolises the mastery and protection of financial resources and the ability to maintain power and stability in the physical world.
The Four of Disks reflects a time when material security is established, and you are likely in a position of control over your material situation. It highlights the importance of maintaining discipline, focus, and practicality in securing one's wealth, but also warns against the potential rigidity or over-attachment to material possessions. The influence of the Sun in Capricorn encourages a steady, strategic approach to building and preserving wealth, ensuring that power and stability are achieved through responsible, enduring effort. This card represents a moment of mastery in managing one's material world.
In Relationships: The Four of Disks may signify stability and security but can also indicate possessiveness or control. It may suggest that you are focusing on maintaining the material aspects of a relationship, such as financial security, at the expense of emotional depth or freedom.
In Work: The Four of Disks suggests financial stability and control over one's material resources. It indicates success in business or career, particularly through careful management and conservation of resources. The card advises maintaining control and not taking unnecessary risks with financial matters.
Spiritually: The Four of Disks may suggest that you are focusing too much on the material or outward manifestations of spirituality and not enough on inner growth. It may be a reminder to let go of the need for control and allow more freedom and flow in your spiritual practice.
When ill-dignified: The Four of Disks represents a fixation on materialism, greed, or possessiveness. You may be too conservative with your resources, unable to let go of control. It can indicate insecurity masked by an outward appearance of power, or the inability to adapt to changing circumstances.
3: Person #3
Element: Air of Fire
Astrological Correspondence: Leo
The Prince of Wands represents the intellectual and communicative aspects of Fire, where mental energy and creative passion converge. As Air of Fire, he embodies the visionary thinker who brings dynamic ideas, plans, and strategies to life with inspiration and daring. The Prince is a passionate and courageous individual, full of bold concepts and the drive to translate them into action.
This card symbolises the spirit of adventure and enterprise, where creativity is channelled into purposeful movement. It is a card of intellectual boldness, where ideas ignite like wildfire and are swiftly translated into reality. The Prince of Wands is a figure of immense energy, filled with determination and enthusiasm to take on challenges, initiating projects with great confidence. He encourages you to embrace the power of your thoughts and ambitions, and act decisively in the pursuit of your goals.
In Relationships: The Prince of Wands represents passion and excitement. This can indicate a fast-moving romance full of desire and adventure, but it can also imply someone committed to the thrill of pursuit rather than steady emotional intimacy. The Prince is often the impulsive lover, driven by the desire for adventure or novelty.
In Work: In the professional world, the Prince of Wands is an energetic and bold leader, pushing projects forward with enthusiasm and a strong sense of purpose. He represents the catalyst for action, the one who brings ideas into motion. However, this card also warns that rushing forward without a solid plan can lead to burnout or missed opportunities.
Spiritually: The Prince of Wands can indicate intellectual exploration or philosophical inquiry. You may seek ways to expand your mind, often through bold or unconventional means. The card may also represent an energetic search for truth or personal enlightenment.
When ill-dignified: The Prince of Wands can indicate mental restlessness, hasty decisions, or an excessive focus on novelty at the expense of deeper commitment. You may be easily distracted or prone to acting on impulse without thinking through the consequences. This card warns against reckless behaviour or a lack of foresight in your actions.
4: Person #1's view of #2
Astrological Correspondence: Sun in Aries
The Three of Wands represents the harmonious alignment of will, action, and purpose. It symbolises confidence, leadership, and the strength to act with integrity. The card depicts three wands crossed in balance, radiating stability and mutual support. Flames emanate from the centre, representing the creative and dynamic energy of fire that has been focused and directed constructively.
This card is about the manifestation of one's will through effort and coordination. It marks the point where initial efforts have taken root and a solid foundation has been established, allowing for continued growth and success. Unlike the chaos of unbridled ambition, the Three of Wands reflects a disciplined and virtuous use of power, ensuring that actions align with one's higher principles. It is a card of optimism, self-assurance, and the momentum to build upon early achievements.
In Relationships: The Three of Wands indicates growth and development. The connection has reached a point where both parties can begin to see the potential for a shared future and greater commitment.
In Work: This card suggests you are beginning to see the first signs of success from previous efforts. It encourages you to continue building on their foundations and look forward to even greater accomplishments.
Spiritually: The Three of Wands represents the expansion of spiritual knowledge and understanding. It signifies progress and the beginning of a deeper connection with the divine.
When ill-dignified: The Three of Wands may suggest overconfidence, impatience, or a lack of focus. You could be spreading yourself too thin or expecting results too quickly. It advises careful planning and the need to be patient as the process unfolds.
5: Person #2's view of #3
(Pisces, Qoph)
The Moon symbolises illusion, intuition, and the mysterious depths of the subconscious. Associated with Qoph, the back of the head, this card delves into the primal and instinctual aspects of the psyche. Pisces, the zodiac of dreams and mysticism, enhances the card's themes of mystery and emotional depth.
The imagery is haunting and enigmatic. A path winds through barren terrain, flanked by twin towers that suggest gateways to the unknown. Above, the moon dominates the sky, casting an eerie light that obscures as much as it reveals. Crawling on the path is a scarab beetle carrying the solar disk, symbolising the emergence of light from darkness. The waters below teem with life, representing the fertile chaos of the subconscious.
In Relationships: The Moon represents emotional complexity and hidden dynamics. It encourages you to trust your intuition and uncover underlying truths.
In Work: This card suggests uncertainty or confusion. You are advised to navigate carefully, relying on intuition and patience to discern the best path forward.
Spiritually: The Moon symbolises the journey through the subconscious and the mysteries of the soul. It calls you to explore your inner depths and embrace the wisdom found in dreams and intuition.
When ill-dignified: The Moon warns of deception, confusion, or fear of the unknown. You are advised to confront your fears and seek clarity amidst uncertainty.
6: Person #3's view of #1
(Moon, Gimel)
The Priestess is a figure of serene and inscrutable wisdom, embodying the mysteries of the subconscious and the cycles of the Moon. She corresponds to Gimel, the camel, representing the capacity to traverse vast spiritual deserts and access hidden truths. The Moon's influence lends her an air of receptivity, intuition, and connection to the rhythms of the cosmos.
Seated on her throne, the Priestess holds a bow, an emblem of Artemis and lunar cycles, symbolising her mastery of timing and precision. Her arms mirror the crescent moons of the background, merging her form with the sea of the unconscious. Before her, a tapestry adorned with pomegranates and palms veils the sacred mysteries, separating the seen from the unseen. At her feet lies the crescent moon, a symbol of her dominion over intuition and the waxing and waning cycles of existence.
In Relationships: The Priestess indicates the presence of profound emotional depth and unspoken bonds. It encourages you to trust your intuition and explore the layers of your connection without rushing to conclusions.
In Work: This card suggests the answers lie in reflection and inner knowledge rather than external action. It advises you to trust your instincts and remain patient while the path unfolds.
Spiritually: The Priestess represents the deep well of inner wisdom, the gateway to divine knowledge. She calls you to explore your dreams, meditations, and intuitions for insight into the mysteries of the self and the universe.
When ill-dignified: The Priestess cautions against passivity, confusion, or ignoring intuitive warnings. You are advised to confront hidden fears and distinguish between genuine intuition and projections of the unconscious mind.
7: Person #2's view of #1
Element: Fire of Water
Astrological Correspondence: Pisces
The Knight of Cups represents the dynamic pursuit of emotional fulfilment and creative inspiration. As Fire of Water, he embodies the passionate drive to explore the depths of emotion and intuition, combining heartfelt intensity with purposeful action. The Knight is a noble figure on horseback, holding a cup with a crab aloft, symbolising his quest for emotional truth and romantic ideals.
The influence of Pisces enhances his sensitivity, imagination, and connection to the mystical and unseen. This pairing infuses the Knight's journey with dreamlike qualities, urging you to follow your creative visions and emotional aspirations, even if they seem intangible or challenging.
The Knight of Cups encourages you to actively pursue your dreams and ideals with courage and determination. He warns, however, against being swept away by fantasies or unrealistic expectations. By channelling his fiery passion and watery intuition, the Knight inspires a balanced approach to emotional and creative endeavours, driven by both heart and purpose.
In Relationships: The Knight of Cups indicates a person full of romantic fervour and idealistic love. He is the quintessential lover, pursuing relationships with enthusiasm and passion. This card may indicate an individual ready to express their love in bold, dramatic ways, or a situation in which love and romance are pursued with intensity and excitement.
In Work: The Knight of Cups suggests you may embark on a path driven by emotional inspiration or creative passion. It can also represent a time of emotional pursuit when you follow your desires or dreams, whether in the arts, healing, or another area that requires deep emotional engagement.
Spiritually: The Knight of Cups indicates a journey of emotional or spiritual discovery. It suggests you are exploring your inner world and seeking to understand deeper emotional or spiritual truths. This card encourages you to follow your heart, trusting your intuition to guide you.
When ill-dignified: The Knight of Cups can indicate emotional instability or impulsive romantic decisions based on fleeting desires. You may become too idealistic, leading to emotional disillusionment. It could also point to a tendency to act out of emotional intensity without considering the consequences or to chase after unattainable dreams.
8: Person #3's view of #2
(Mars, Peh)
The Tower represents sudden upheaval, revelation, and the destruction of false structures. Associated with Peh, the mouth, this card conveys the power of truth to shatter illusions. Mars, the planet of force and conflict, infuses the card with explosive energy and transformative destruction.
The imagery is vivid and chaotic. A tall tower, struck by lightning, crumbles as flames consume it, symbolising the collapse of rigid, outdated systems. Figures fall from the tower, illustrating the inevitability of change and the humbling of ego. The colours are fiery and intense, reflecting the raw energy of destruction. Amidst the chaos, the lion-serpent Yaldabaoth and a dove representing the Holy Spirit suggest a transformation brought about by hidden wisdom revealed by divine grace.
In Relationships: The Tower indicates sudden changes or disruptions. It may signify a breakup or the dismantling of illusions, allowing for greater honesty and authenticity.
In Work: This card signals upheaval or the collapse of established structures. You are advised to embrace change as an opportunity for rebuilding stronger foundations.
Spiritually: The Tower symbolises enlightenment through the destruction of illusions. It calls you to surrender to the transformative power of truth and embrace the freedom that follows.
When ill-dignified: The Tower warns of resistance to change or the denial of necessary upheaval. You are advised to confront uncomfortable truths and allow the process of transformation to unfold.
9: Person #1's view of #3
Astrological Correspondence: Mars in Gemini
The Nine of Swords features nine long swords pointing downward, with blood dripping from their blades. This stark imagery symbolises mental torment, anguish, and the destructive nature of obsessive thoughts. The swords are arranged in a neat, symmetrical pattern, creating a sense of overwhelming confinement. The dripping blood adds an element of suffering, underscoring the emotional pain that often accompanies mental distress.
The Mars in Gemini influence links this card to the struggle of the mind—Mars, the planet of aggression and conflict, is paired with Gemini, the sign of duality and scattered thought. This combination reflects mental cruelty: the mind in conflict, torn between multiple, often contradictory thoughts, leading to heightened anxiety and self-inflicted pain. The Nine of Swords indicates that the distress is exaggerated and often caused by the inability to control overactive, fearful thinking. This card suggests you may be trapped by your mind, but relief comes with confronting these fears and breaking free from the cycle of overthinking.
In Relationships: The Nine of Swords indicates excessive worry or anxiety, maybe stemming from irrational fears or doubts. It suggests your mind is clouded by negative thinking, and you may be overly focused on problems that have not yet materialised. The card urges you to confront your fears and seek clarity, as the situation may not be as dire as you believe.
In Work: The Nine of Swords indicates mental stress, burnout, or overwhelming worry about the future. It suggests a period of sleeplessness, anxiety over work-related issues, or a fear of failure. The card advises you to address your mental health and seek help if needed, as the stress may be disproportionate to the actual situation.
Spiritually: The Nine of Swords represents despair or inner conflict. It suggests your mind is filled with self-doubt, fear, or confusion, preventing spiritual progress. The card calls for mental healing and the release of unnecessary worry to create space for inner peace and clarity.
When ill-dignified: The Nine of Swords can indicate a worsening of mental anguish, where you cannot break free from obsessive thoughts or fears. It may suggest depression, overwhelming anxiety, or hopelessness, where the mind is trapped in a cycle of negative thinking.
10: Overall relationship between persons #1 and #2
(Libra, Lamed)
In the Thoth deck, the card traditionally known as Justice is renamed Adjustment, reflecting the dynamic nature of balance and the constant recalibration required to maintain harmony. Associated with Lamed, the ox-goad, it represents the guidance and discipline needed to align oneself with universal truth. Libra, the zodiac of balance and fairness, infuses the card with its themes of equity and measured judgement.
The central figure of Adjustment is a serene androgynous figure holding a sword while balancing on their toes, between a balanced pair of scales. The sword symbolises the piercing clarity of truth, while the scales represent the cosmic law of cause and effect. Their poised stance is framed by geometric patterns, emphasising precision and the mathematical order of the universe. Behind them, a brilliant green background evokes the idea of renewal and the living equilibrium of nature.
In Relationships: Adjustment highlights the importance of honesty, fairness, and mutual accountability. It encourages you to communicate openly and seek a balanced dynamic.
In Work: This card suggests success will come through careful analysis, ethical decision-making, and the ability to adapt to changing circumstances. It warns against cutting corners or ignoring the consequences of actions.
Spiritually: Adjustment signifies alignment with divine truth and the quest for inner harmony. You are called to reflect on your actions and ensure they are in alignment with your highest principles.
When ill-dignified: Adjustment warns of imbalance, dishonesty, or an inability to take responsibility for one's actions. You are advised to confront uncomfortable truths and restore equilibrium through introspection and accountability.
11: Overall relationship between persons #2 and #3
Element: Water of Fire
Astrological Correspondence: Cancer
The Queen of Wands represents the emotional and nurturing qualities of Water combined with the dynamic power of Fire. As Water of Fire, she embodies the balance of intuition, compassion, and creativity with the strength and vitality of fiery inspiration. The Queen channels her energy in a way both magnetic and nurturing, guiding and protecting what she creates with emotional depth and wisdom.
This card signifies a person who possesses the ability to inspire and lead through emotional intelligence and nurturing energy. While the Princess and Prince represent the beginnings of creative expression and active drive, the Queen of Wands embodies the harmonious flow of that energy, managing it with confidence, care, and resilience. She is a visionary who nurtures her creations, empowering others with her dynamic yet empathetic approach. The Queen of Wands encourages you to trust your intuition, inspire those around you, and take a balanced, compassionate approach in your leadership and creative endeavours.
In Relationships: The Queen of Wands represents a relationship of passion and emotional depth. She is the nurturing force behind the bond, who maintains balance and harmony with great strength. Her love is fierce, protective, and encouraging, creating an environment where both partners feel empowered to grow.
In Work: This card represents a person in a position of leadership who uses both intuition and intellect to guide their endeavours. The Queen of Wands knows how to balance assertiveness with empathy, leading by example and encouraging others to step into their own creative power. In the workplace, she represents a role model or mentor figure, someone who nurtures the growth of others through her example and leadership.
Spiritually: The Queen of Wands is a leader who embodies creative expression and the nurturing aspects of spirituality. She encourages you to embrace your personal power and trust your intuition. There is an emphasis on self-love and self-expression in her influence, guiding you towards a harmonious relationship with your spiritual path.
When ill-dignified: The Queen of Wands can represent emotional volatility, arrogance, or an abuse of power. She may become controlling or demanding, using her charm to manipulate others. The Queen, in this state, may be too emotionally driven and fail to maintain balance, leading to disharmony or unnecessary conflict.
12: Overall relationship between persons #1 and #3
Astrological Correspondence: Mercury in Taurus
This card symbolises material challenges, hardship, and feelings of insecurity. The image of five disks scattered and disconnected represents financial or material instability, often accompanied by feelings of worry, anxiety, or fear about the loss of wealth or resources. This card reflects the difficulties that arise when material circumstances are not in alignment, and it points to struggles that may leave one feeling deprived or vulnerable.
Despite the sense of hardship, the Five of Disks also suggests change and recovery are possible, especially if one faces these difficulties with perseverance and determination. The influence of Mercury in Taurus stresses the need for clear communication, careful thought, and practical action in navigating through this period of instability. The card reminds you that, although the situation may seem bleak, persistence and adaptability can pave the way for renewal and recovery in the material realm.
In Relationships: The Five of Disks can signal feelings of neglect, isolation, or worry. There may be concerns about security, whether emotional or financial, leading to strain within a partnership. The card advises you to face challenges together and not allow fear or insecurity to dominate the relationship.
In Work: The Five of Disks suggests financial difficulties or setbacks. It may point to job loss, debt, or economic downturns that can create insecurity. The card encourages you to persevere and seek new opportunities, as material stability can be restored with the right effort and mindset.
Spiritually: The Five of Disks may indicate spiritual poverty or disconnection from one's higher self. It can suggest a lack of faith in the face of adversity or material struggle. The card encourages you to find strength within and trust that spiritual renewal is possible, even during challenging times.
When ill-dignified: The Five of Disks can point to extreme loss, greed, or a fixation on material concerns at the expense of everything else. There may be a tendency to wallow in despair or make rash decisions based on fear or panic. You may be facing unnecessary difficulties due to poor choices or neglect.
13: Overall 3-way Relationship
Astrological Correspondence: Jupiter in Capricorn
This card symbolises the dynamic balance between opposing forces and the ever-shifting nature of material reality. The two disks in motion reflect the fluid and cyclical nature of life's material aspects, such as work, resources, and finances. The snake and yin-yang imagery emphasises the constant flow of these aspects and the need to navigate them with adaptability and flexibility.
This card suggests you are experiencing—or will soon encounter—change or fluctuation in material matters. The Two of Disks advises you to stay nimble and open to shifting circumstances, reminding us that change is inevitable and can be an opportunity for growth. The balance between the two disks represents the ability to manage competing demands, integrating opposing forces to maintain equilibrium.
The Two of Disks also brings the influence of Jupiter in Capricorn, which encourages expansive growth and the pursuit of long-term success within the structure of discipline and responsibility. It suggests the need to adapt to changes while maintaining focus on practical goals and building solid foundations for the future.
In Relationships: The Two of Disks may indicate the need to juggle multiple aspects of life, such as balancing work, home, and romantic commitments. It can represent the fluid, ever-changing nature of relationships, calling for the ability to adapt to shifts in dynamics.
In Work: The Two of Disks suggests a need to balance various aspects of career and business. It represents the challenges of managing multiple projects, finances, or priorities, and advises adaptability and resourcefulness in the face of ever-changing circumstances.
Spiritually: The Two of Disks calls for balance and the ability to adapt to changes in one's spiritual path. The card warns against being rigid and encourages you to flow with the changes and challenges of your spiritual journey.
When ill-dignified: The Two of Disks can signify instability, indecision, or being overwhelmed by too many competing priorities. It may indicate a lack of balance, difficulty managing material matters, or an inability to adapt to changing circumstances. In the worst case, it may suggest that you are resisting necessary changes or are being stretched too thin.