Relationship Spread #2
Difficulty: Easy
This relationship spread focuses more on the common ground of the relationship, with three cards in the middle column showing the common ground. The middle column essentially displays the past, present, and future of the relationship.
Card #4 stands for the common base of the relationship, which may be thought of as the past events which have shaped their characters, bringing them together. The current connection that binds them together is Card #3, indicating the values shared. Card #7 implies the common goals that would keep the pair together moving into the future.
The columns on either side show what each partner brings to the table. Remember, relationships need not be romantic, and the partners could even be groups rather than individuals. In this layout, the other person is on the left-hand side and the reader on the right.
Cards #1 & #2 indicate the separate personalities of each member of the relationship. These cards form a sort of bridge with the cards beneath them, #5 & #6, which show the qualities that each partner offers the other person, and thus to the relationship as a whole.
Your Relationship #2 Reading
Mutual Goals |
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Your Qualities |
Connection (Present) |
Others' Qualities |
What You Bring |
Common Base (Past) |
What They Bring  |
7: Mutual Goals
XII – The Hanged Man
(Water, Mem)
The Hanged Man represents surrender, transformation, and the wisdom gained through self-sacrifice. Associated with Mem, the waters, this card embodies the flow of unconscious depths and the mysteries that lie beyond the material world. It is not a card of suffering but one of enlightenment through letting go.
The central figure is suspended upside-down, forming a cross with his legs, a symbol of balance and sacrifice. His arms form a triangle, evoking the union of spirit and matter. Behind him, the swirling blue-green background suggests the ocean of the subconscious. The serene expression on his face reflects the tranquillity found in surrendering to a greater truth. Around him, rays of light emanate, signifying the revelation that arises from this state of suspension.
In Relationships: The Hanged Man suggests a need for patience, selflessness, and understanding. It encourages you to see things from your partner's perspective and release control.
In Work: This card indicates a period of pause or sacrifice, where immediate goals may need to be set aside for long-term growth. You are advised to trust in the process and focus on the bigger picture.
Spiritually: The Hanged Man symbolises enlightenment achieved through surrender and the release of ego. It calls you to embrace the transformative power of stillness and contemplation.
When ill-dignified: The Hanged Man warns of stagnation, resistance to change, or clinging to outdated beliefs. You are advised to let go of what no longer serves you and embrace the wisdom of surrender.
3: Connection
Prince of Wands
Element: Air of Fire
Astrological Correspondence: Leo
The Prince of Wands represents the intellectual and communicative aspects of Fire, where mental energy and creative passion converge. As Air of Fire, he embodies the visionary thinker who brings dynamic ideas, plans, and strategies to life with inspiration and daring. The Prince is a passionate and courageous individual, full of bold concepts and the drive to translate them into action.
This card symbolises the spirit of adventure and enterprise, where creativity is channelled into purposeful movement. It is a card of intellectual boldness, where ideas ignite like wildfire and are swiftly translated into reality. The Prince of Wands is a figure of immense energy, filled with determination and enthusiasm to take on challenges, initiating projects with great confidence. He encourages you to embrace the power of your thoughts and ambitions, and act decisively in the pursuit of your goals.
In Relationships: The Prince of Wands represents passion and excitement. This can indicate a fast-moving romance full of desire and adventure, but it can also imply someone committed to the thrill of pursuit rather than steady emotional intimacy. The Prince is often the impulsive lover, driven by the desire for adventure or novelty.
In Work: In the professional world, the Prince of Wands is an energetic and bold leader, pushing projects forward with enthusiasm and a strong sense of purpose. He represents the catalyst for action, the one who brings ideas into motion. However, this card also warns that rushing forward without a solid plan can lead to burnout or missed opportunities.
Spiritually: The Prince of Wands can indicate intellectual exploration or philosophical inquiry. You may seek ways to expand your mind, often through bold or unconventional means. The card may also represent an energetic search for truth or personal enlightenment.
When ill-dignified: The Prince of Wands can indicate mental restlessness, hasty decisions, or an excessive focus on novelty at the expense of deeper commitment. You may be easily distracted or prone to acting on impulse without thinking through the consequences. This card warns against reckless behaviour or a lack of foresight in your actions.
4: Common Base
Ace of Swords
(Root of Air)
The Ace of Swords represents the inception of intellectual clarity, truth, and the pure power of the mind. As the root of Air, this card signifies the primal force of reason, insight, and the ability to cut through confusion with decisive thought. The sword emerges triumphantly to penetrate a crown, symbolising the victorious nature of intellect and the potential for mental breakthroughs.
This card carries the energy of divine inspiration, where ideas and truths are revealed with sharp precision. It embodies the potential for new beginnings in the realms of thought, communication, and decision-making, offering the clarity needed to navigate complexity and uncover hidden truths.
The Ace of Swords invites you to wield your intellect with purpose and integrity. It encourages you to embrace the power of your mind, use discernment, and seek higher truths. While the energy of this card is potent, it also serves as a reminder that insight must be applied wisely to achieve meaningful results.
In Relationships: The Ace of Swords suggests clear communication or an intellectual breakthrough regarding a relationship. This card could indicate the need for a rational approach to love or a new idea about how to move forward. It can also indicate the need for honest, open communication to resolve any confusion or misunderstandings.
In Work: The Ace of Swords represents a new beginning in intellectual or professional pursuits. It signifies the initiation of a project or idea that requires sharp intellect, decisive action, and clear thought. You may experience a breakthrough moment in your work, perhaps leading to a fresh perspective or new opportunity.
Spiritually: The Ace of Swords points to an epiphany, a sudden insight, or an awakening that brings clarity and understanding. You are being called to engage with truth and intellect on your spiritual journey, cutting through illusion and seeking knowledge that will illuminate your path forward.
When ill-dignified: The Ace of Swords can suggest mental confusion, unclear thought, or a struggle to communicate effectively. It may point to a time of mental overwhelm or the misuse of intellect, where your thoughts or words cause harm or misunderstanding. There may be difficulty in seeing the truth or recognising it when it appears.
2: Your Qualities
XX – The Aeon
(Judgement, Fire, Shin)
The Aeon represents transformation, evolution, and the awakening to a higher state of consciousness. Associated with Shin, the tooth, this card reflects the process of breaking through old paradigms to embrace a new spiritual era. Crowley's reinterpretation of Judgement as The Aeon emphasises rebirth on a cosmic scale, rather than individual reckoning.
The central figure is the translucent child-god Horus, representing the dawn of a new age. Above him, Nuit, the goddess of infinite space, arches across the sky, and Hadit, the fiery point of divine inspiration, burns at her core. The two incarnations of the same figure symbolise the transition from the old to the new. The vibrant reds and blues throughout the card evoke the dynamic forces of destruction and creation.
In Relationships: The Aeon signifies the potential for profound change. It suggests leaving behind outdated patterns and embracing a higher level of connection and understanding.
In Work: This card indicates a turning point, calling you to align with your true purpose and embrace transformative opportunities.
Spiritually: The Aeon symbolises awakening to a higher state of being. It calls you to release the past and step into your divine purpose with courage and clarity.
When ill-dignified: The Aeon warns of resistance to change, clinging to outdated beliefs, or fear of transformation. You are advised to trust the process of renewal and embrace the potential of the new era.
1: Their Qualities
Eight of Disks (Prudence)
Astrological Correspondence: Sun in Virgo
card symbolises the diligent, focused work required to master one's material environment. It depicts a series of disks, with an emphasis on the process of refining, perfecting, and honing one's skills. This image reflects the application of sustained effort, practice, and attention to detail in the material world, where you are engaged in the step-by-step work needed to manifest your goals into tangible results.
This card highlights the importance of persistence, discipline, and dedication to improving one's material circumstances. The Eight of Disks signifies transforming raw potential into success, emphasising that mastery comes through effort and attention to the finer aspects of one's work. It encourages you to focus on the task at hand, work diligently, and refine your skills to achieve mastery and accomplishment in your endeavours.
The influence of the Sun in Virgo brings an energy of meticulousness, emphasising the importance of detail, precision, and practical application. The Eight of Disks reminds us that success in the material realm comes not from shortcuts or superficial efforts, but through careful, sustained effort that builds over time.
In Relationships: The Eight of Disks suggests careful work and effort. To thrive, the relationship may require patience, commitment, and attention to detail. This card encourages you to invest in the relationship over time and work towards its long-term stability.
In Work: The Eight of Disks represents hard work and mastery of one's craft. It indicates that success will be achieved through consistent effort, attention to detail, and refining one's skills. This card encourages patience and a methodical approach to achieving career goals.
Spiritually: The Eight of Disks symbolises the steady work needed to improve one's spiritual practice. It suggests that your spiritual path requires dedication and the consistent application of effort. Mastery comes through practice, discipline, and attention to the details of spiritual growth.
When ill-dignified: The Eight of Disks can suggest a lack of focus or a tendency to overwork without seeing results. It may indicate inefficiency, burnout, or excessive attention to minor details at the expense of the bigger picture. You may be putting in too much work for too little return.
6: What You Bring
Ten of Cups (Satiety)
5: What They Bring
Two of Disks (Change)
Astrological Correspondence: Jupiter in Capricorn
This card symbolises the dynamic balance between opposing forces and the ever-shifting nature of material reality. The two disks in motion reflect the fluid and cyclical nature of life's material aspects, such as work, resources, and finances. The snake and yin-yang imagery emphasises the constant flow of these aspects and the need to navigate them with adaptability and flexibility.
This card suggests you are experiencing—or will soon encounter—change or fluctuation in material matters. The Two of Disks advises you to stay nimble and open to shifting circumstances, reminding us that change is inevitable and can be an opportunity for growth. The balance between the two disks represents the ability to manage competing demands, integrating opposing forces to maintain equilibrium.
The Two of Disks also brings the influence of Jupiter in Capricorn, which encourages expansive growth and the pursuit of long-term success within the structure of discipline and responsibility. It suggests the need to adapt to changes while maintaining focus on practical goals and building solid foundations for the future.
In Relationships: The Two of Disks may indicate the need to juggle multiple aspects of life, such as balancing work, home, and romantic commitments. It can represent the fluid, ever-changing nature of relationships, calling for the ability to adapt to shifts in dynamics.
In Work: The Two of Disks suggests a need to balance various aspects of career and business. It represents the challenges of managing multiple projects, finances, or priorities, and advises adaptability and resourcefulness in the face of ever-changing circumstances.
Spiritually: The Two of Disks calls for balance and the ability to adapt to changes in one's spiritual path. The card warns against being rigid and encourages you to flow with the changes and challenges of your spiritual journey.
When ill-dignified: The Two of Disks can signify instability, indecision, or being overwhelmed by too many competing priorities. It may indicate a lack of balance, difficulty managing material matters, or an inability to adapt to changing circumstances. In the worst case, it may suggest that you are resisting necessary changes or are being stretched too thin.