Relationship Spread #2
Difficulty: Easy
This relationship spread focuses more on the common ground of the relationship, with three cards in the middle column showing the common ground. The middle column essentially displays the past, present, and future of the relationship.
Card #4 stands for the common base of the relationship, which may be thought of as the past events which have shaped their characters, bringing them together. The current connection that binds them together is Card #3, indicating the values shared. Card #7 implies the common goals that would keep the pair together moving into the future.
The columns on either side show what each partner brings to the table. Remember, relationships need not be romantic, and the partners could even be groups rather than individuals. In this layout, the other person is on the left-hand side and the reader on the right.
Cards #1 & #2 indicate the separate personalities of each member of the relationship. These cards form a sort of bridge with the cards beneath them, #5 & #6, which show the qualities that each partner offers the other person, and thus to the relationship as a whole.
Your Relationship #2 Reading
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Your Qualities |
Connection (Present) |
Others' Qualities |
What You Bring |
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What They Bring  |
7: Mutual Goals
Eight of Cups (Indolence)
Astrological Correspondence: Saturn in Pisces
The Eight of Cups represents stagnation, disillusionment, and the weariness that arises from unfulfilled emotional needs. This card features eight cups arranged in an imbalanced structure, with their contents spilling out or appearing stagnant. The imagery conveys decay and loss, symbolising the dissatisfaction of clinging to unproductive emotional attachments or patterns.
Saturn in Pisces reflects the tension between structure and fluidity, highlighting the difficulty of maintaining emotional boundaries in the face of dissolution or disappointment. This astrological pairing underscores the feeling of being weighed down by emotional fatigue or the realisation that what once brought joy no longer fulfils or inspires.
The Eight of Cups signifies the need to let go of what has become draining, even if it requires confronting discomfort or loss. It marks a pivotal moment of release, encouraging a quest for deeper meaning and renewal. By recognising the futility of staying in an unfulfilling situation, the card points towards the potential for growth and transformation through emotional detachment and self-reflection.
In Relationships: The Eight of Cups often points to a relationship that, despite its outward appearance of fulfilment, no longer satisfies the seeker's emotional needs. You may be ready to leave behind a relationship or feel a sense of loss or disappointment, understanding that something more profound is required to restore your emotional balance.
In Work: The Eight of Cups suggests a desire to leave behind an unfulfilling job or career. You may feel disconnected or uninspired by your work and ready to seek new opportunities that better align with your emotional or spiritual goals. This card may indicate a major change or transition in the professional sphere.
Spiritually: The Eight of Cups represents a turning away from superficial or hollow experiences and seeking something of greater depth. It may indicate a spiritual quest, a period of introspection where the seeker must leave behind old beliefs or practices to pursue more meaningful growth.
When ill-dignified: The Eight of Cups can signal an emotional retreat into isolation or the avoidance of necessary change. It can indicate that you are unwilling to walk away from an unfulfilling situation, despite your inner knowing that it is time for something new. There may be a reluctance to let go, resulting in stagnation.
3: Connection
Knight of Wands
Element: Fire of Fire
Astrological Correspondence: Sagittarius
The Knight of Wands embodies the pure, unbridled energy of Fire in its most dynamic form. As Fire of Fire, he is the embodiment of passionate action, adventure, and relentless pursuit of goals. The Knight represents a fearless, enthusiastic warrior who acts with boldness and intensity, ready to charge forward into unfamiliar territory without hesitation.
This card signifies the drive to break boundaries, embrace new challenges, and explore uncharted paths. The Knight of Wands is a force of nature, radiating energy and vitality that propels him into action. His fiery spirit is uncontained, seeking freedom and new experiences. While this card represents ambition and a desire for conquest, it also warns of impulsiveness and a lack of focus that can lead to burnout or scattered efforts. The Knight of Wands encourages you to embrace your courage and enthusiasm, but reminds you to maintain direction and purpose in your ventures.
In Relationships: The Knight of Wands represents a passionate, fast-moving romance. There is little patience for hesitation or stagnation, and the Knight's approach to love is one of intensity, fervour, and excitement. This card may suggest a whirlwind romance, characterised by excitement and boldness, but also perhaps a lack of stability or depth.
In Work: The Knight of Wands represents the energetic pursuit of career goals and the pursuit of new ventures. This is the go-getter always ready for the next enormous opportunity, charging forward without fear. However, the Knight's restless energy can sometimes lead to burnout or an incomplete follow-through on projects, so caution is advised in maintaining focus.
Spiritually: The Knight of Wands signifies a quest for knowledge or self-improvement driven by intense passion. You may be seeking higher truths with tremendous fervour, though your approach may be more about action and experience than contemplation. This card encourages bold spiritual experimentation, but also warns of burnout or excessive zeal without balance.
When ill-dignified: The Knight of Wands can represent recklessness, impulsivity, and a lack of direction. He may act too quickly or too aggressively, disregarding the consequences of his actions. In this state, the Knight's energy is unbalanced, leading to rash decisions, uncompleted projects, or a tendency to act out of ego rather than purpose.
4: Common Base
Princess of Wands
Element: Earth of Fire
The Princess of Wands represents the fusion of the fiery creative impulse with the grounded, material energy of Earth. The Princess embodies the potential for creative energy to manifest in tangible, lasting form. As Earth of Fire, she symbolises the ability to bring fiery inspiration and passion into the physical realm, making it real and enduring.
This card speaks to the beginning of a creative or spiritual journey, where passion, enthusiasm, and bold ideas are taking shape and solidifying. The Princess is not just a dreamer but a doer, turning inspiration into something with substance and practical value. Her energy is earthy and stable, allowing for the manifestation of creative projects or ventures to thrive in the material world. The Princess of Wands encourages you to embrace your inner creativity and channel it into something concrete, reminding that significant transformations begin with focused action.
In Relationships: When the Princess of Wands appears in a romantic context, it suggests the early stages of passion—exciting and full of potential, but not yet fully formed. The relationship is in its foundation stage, with room for growth and expansion. It represents a time of exploration and discovery in the realm of love, where energy is building but has not yet taken shape into long-term commitment.
In Work: This card indicates the birth of a new venture or project that will manifest in the material world. The Princess of Wands often heralds the arrival of new opportunities, but she also brings with her the potential for those ideas to be grounded and practical. She urges you to focus on laying solid foundations for future growth.
Spiritually: The Princess of Wands points to spiritual awakening or an initial foray into a new spiritual practice. There is a spark of creative potential, but it is still in the early, earthly stages of development. This card is about planting the seeds for spiritual growth that will flourish over time.
When ill-dignified: The Princess of Wands can signal a lack of direction or focus, where the initial excitement and energy are scattered, leaving you stuck in a cycle of false starts. There may also be an element of stagnation or inertia, as ideas fail to manifest into reality. It is a call for more grounded effort and the need to overcome obstacles to bring creative desires into the physical world.
2: Your Qualities
Prince of Cups
Element: Air of Water
Astrological Correspondence: Scorpio
The Prince of Cups represents the dynamic interplay between intellect and emotion, where Air's exploratory nature merges with Water's depth and intensity. As Air of Water, he embodies a figure of emotional complexity and intellectual curiosity, driven by a quest for deeper meaning and truth, pulled by an eagle. He is depicted as a charioteer navigating turbulent waters, holding a cup that symbolises his pursuit of emotional and spiritual insight.
This card highlights the active force of intuition and the transformative power of emotions guided by intellectual focus. The Scorpio influence intensifies his inner depth, imbuing his journey with passion, determination, and a willingness to explore the unknown realms of the heart and soul.
The Prince of Cups invites you to harness your emotional wisdom and channel it into meaningful action. While his intensity and curiosity can lead to profound insights and transformative experiences, he also cautions against becoming consumed by emotional extremes or illusions. He inspires you to balance your emotional depth with clarity and purpose, pursuing your desires with confidence and integrity.
In Relationships: The Prince of Cups represents someone idealistic, emotionally expressive, and perhaps on a quest for love or emotional fulfilment. This card can indicate someone emotionally open but who may be swept away by their emotions or desires for romantic ideals.
In Work: The Prince of Cups can point to a career path that requires creativity, intuition, and emotional intelligence. He may represent a person who uses their emotional depth and insight to drive their professional goals or a time when you are pursuing a career that aligns with your emotional passions and desires. However, the Prince also suggests ensuring you stay grounded, as you could become distracted by your emotional dreams or ideals.
Spiritually: The Prince of Cups speaks to an emotional journey where intuition and feelings guide you. This card indicates you are on a spiritual quest to connect more profoundly with your emotions and intuitive wisdom. It suggests a time of emotional exploration propelled by intellectual curiosity and the search for higher truths.
When ill-dignified: The Prince of Cups can indicate emotional instability or a tendency to act impulsively based on fleeting feelings. You may become overly idealistic, leading to disillusionment when reality doesn't align with your fantasies. There may also be a tendency to escape into emotional distractions, rather than facing challenging feelings head-on.
1: Their Qualities
0 – The Fool
(Air, Uranus, Aleph)
The Fool of the Thoth deck embodies the chaotic, boundless energy of pure potential, untouched by form or limitation. He is the alpha and omega of the journey, the primordial force from which all creation arises. Corresponding to Aleph, the breath of life, and the element of Air, the Fool represents the vibrant, unpredictable nature of Uranus, the planet of sudden change and divine inspiration.
The figure of The Fool is richly adorned, standing amid a swirling maelstrom of symbolic forms. He wears motley robes to represent his openness to all experiences, while the winged sun at his feet symbolises the life-giving power of the divine. Around him whirl a tiger (representing instinct and primal fear), a crocodile (a guardian of the mysteries and a symbol of time), and a rainbow-hued disk, representing the harmony of all elements. The Fool holds a blazing torch in one hand and a crystal cup in the other, signifying the balance of will and receptivity. One foot is grounded in the world, while the other stands on the fourth wall, as if attempting to step into our world.
In Relationships: The Fool represents the potential for new beginnings and uncharted emotional experiences. It encourages you to approach relationships with innocence and trust, unburdened by fears or preconceptions.
In Work: This card advises bold action and faith in one's ideas. It suggests venturing into unfamiliar territory and taking inspired risks, understanding that growth lies in embracing uncertainty.
Spiritually: The Fool symbolises the seeker's initial step on the path to enlightenment, an act of surrender to the cosmic current. It urges you to trust the process and let go of the need for certainty.
When ill-dignified: The Fool warns of chaos, recklessness, or naivety. You are cautioned to discern whether you are pursuing freedom or fleeing responsibility and examine whether your actions align with higher wisdom.
6: What You Bring
III – The Empress
5: What They Bring
XVII – The Star
(Aquarius, Heh)
The Star represents hope, inspiration, and the flow of divine energy. Associated with Heh, the window, this card symbolises clarity and the opening of the soul to cosmic light. Aquarius, the zodiac of vision and humanitarian ideals, imbues the card with themes of enlightenment and universal connection.
The central figure is a nude woman, representing purity and vulnerability, pouring water from two vessels—one onto the earth and the other into a pool, symbolising the balance between spiritual and material realms. Behind her, a radiant star dominates the sky, surrounded by smaller stars, signifying guidance and hope. The background, rich with blues and violets, evokes the tranquillity of the natural world.
In Relationships: The Star suggests healing and renewed hope. It encourages you to trust in the flow of love and remain open to its guidance.
In Work: This card signifies inspiration and creative potential. You are advised to trust your intuition and align your efforts with a higher vision.
Spiritually: The Star symbolises a connection to the divine and the flow of universal energy. It calls you to share your gifts and have faith in the cosmic plan.
When ill-dignified: The Star warns of disillusionment, a loss of faith, or a failure to see one's potential. You are advised to reconnect with your inner light and trust in the process of renewal.