Relationship Spread #1
Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
You |
Other Person |
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Thought |
 Prince of Disks |
 XI – Lust |
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Emotion |
 V – The Hierophant |
The Significator  Five of Disks (Worry) |
 XX – The Aeon |
External Stance |
 IX – The Hermit |
 Knight of Cups |
The Significator
Five of Disks (Worry)
Astrological Correspondence: Mercury in Taurus
This card symbolises material challenges, hardship, and feelings of insecurity. The image of five disks scattered and disconnected represents financial or material instability, often accompanied by feelings of worry, anxiety, or fear about the loss of wealth or resources. This card reflects the difficulties that arise when material circumstances are not in alignment, and it points to struggles that may leave one feeling deprived or vulnerable.
Despite the sense of hardship, the Five of Disks also suggests change and recovery are possible, especially if one faces these difficulties with perseverance and determination. The influence of Mercury in Taurus stresses the need for clear communication, careful thought, and practical action in navigating through this period of instability. The card reminds you that, although the situation may seem bleak, persistence and adaptability can pave the way for renewal and recovery in the material realm.
In Relationships: The Five of Disks can signal feelings of neglect, isolation, or worry. There may be concerns about security, whether emotional or financial, leading to strain within a partnership. The card advises you to face challenges together and not allow fear or insecurity to dominate the relationship.
In Work: The Five of Disks suggests financial difficulties or setbacks. It may point to job loss, debt, or economic downturns that can create insecurity. The card encourages you to persevere and seek new opportunities, as material stability can be restored with the right effort and mindset.
Spiritually: The Five of Disks may indicate spiritual poverty or disconnection from one's higher self. It can suggest a lack of faith in the face of adversity or material struggle. The card encourages you to find strength within and trust that spiritual renewal is possible, even during challenging times.
When ill-dignified: The Five of Disks can point to extreme loss, greed, or a fixation on material concerns at the expense of everything else. There may be a tendency to wallow in despair or make rash decisions based on fear or panic. You may be facing unnecessary difficulties due to poor choices or neglect.
The Querent's Thoughts
Prince of Disks
Element: Air of Earth
Astrological Correspondence: Taurus
The Prince of Disks represents the active, dynamic force within the Earth element, embodying the drive and determination needed to manifest material success. The Prince is depicted as a youthful figure holding a large disk, symbolising his connection to the material world and his unwavering focus on achieving practical goals. His element, Air of Earth, combines intellectual energy and strategy with the solid, grounding qualities of Earth. This fusion empowers him to take disciplined action in pursuit of material gain and stability.
The Prince of Disks is steadfast, practical, and diligent, bringing order and purpose to his endeavours. He represents a force of transformation in the material realm, working tirelessly to build lasting structures, wealth, and prosperity. While the Princess embodies receptive and nurturing qualities of Earth, the Prince is the active counterpart, initiating the processes that lead to tangible results. His approach is grounded in intelligence and practicality, ensuring that his goals are not only visionary but also achievable.
This card signifies the power of focused effort and the importance of perseverance in creating lasting success in the physical world. It encourages a balanced, methodical approach to manifesting desires, and serves as a reminder that patience and hard work will lead to prosperity and stability.
In Relationships: The Prince of Disks indicates a steady, committed individual who brings stability and reliability. He may represent someone willing to work hard to ensure the relationship's success, and who values loyalty and practicality in love. The Prince often symbolises a partner who brings financial or material security to the relationship.
In Work: The Prince of Disks signifies diligence, persistence, and hard work. This card points to someone dedicated to their career who works steadily towards material success. It may also indicate someone undertaking a project that requires consistency and long-term effort to bring results.
Spiritually: The Prince of Disks calls for a grounded and disciplined approach to spiritual work. He suggests that spiritual progress comes through steady, practical efforts and that one must apply the same dedication to spiritual growth as one would to material pursuits. The card also points to balancing spiritual goals with worldly responsibilities.
When ill-dignified: The Prince of Disks can indicate stubbornness or inflexibility, especially in material matters. It may suggest an overemphasis on work or the material world to the detriment of other aspects of life, such as relationships or spiritual growth. There may be a tendency to become too entrenched in your goals or ways of thinking, leading to stagnation.
The Other Person's Thoughts
XI – Lust
(Leo, Teth)
Lust, known as Strength in many other decks, takes on a unique and profound meaning in the Book of Thoth. This card signifies the ecstatic embrace of life's passions and the power derived from uniting primal instincts with spiritual purpose. Associated with Teth, the serpent, it symbolises both the kundalini energy and the continuous cycles of transformation and renewal. Leo, the zodiac of courage and vitality, infuses the card with boundless confidence and creative expression.
The central figure is a woman riding a multi-headed beast, a symbol of primal forces mastered and directed towards a higher purpose. Her nudity represents authenticity and fearlessness, while the cup she holds aloft is the Holy Grail, symbolising the ultimate spiritual goal. The beast itself, covered in fiery hues, represents the dynamic power of creation, destruction, and renewal. The background is filled with swirling red and gold, reflecting the intensity of life force and divine energy.
In Relationships: Lust represents passion, desire, and a fearless embrace of emotional intensity. It encourages you to fully engage with your relationships, revelling in love's transformative power.
In Work: This card signifies success achieved through boldness, enthusiasm, and a connection to one's creative instincts. You are advised to channel your energy into projects that ignite your passion.
Spiritually: Lust symbolises the awakening of spiritual vitality and integrating one's primal and divine natures. It calls you to surrender to the ecstatic flow of universal energy.
When ill-dignified: Lust warns of unchecked desires, destructive passions, or an overindulgence in material pleasures. You are advised to restore balance and align your desires with a higher purpose.
The Querent's Emotions
V – The Hierophant
(Taurus, Vav)
The Hierophant is a figure of sacred knowledge and spiritual authority, acting as the bridge between the divine and the mundane. Linked to Vav, the nail, he unites opposing forces and secures the sacred connection between heaven and earth. Taurus, the zodiac sign of stability and sensuality, lends him an enduring, earthy strength.
The Hierophant is depicted as a commanding figure robed in red, symbolising spiritual power and divine authority. He stands as a bridge between the divine and material realms. A large pentagram glows on his chest, signifying mastery over the elements and sacred knowledge. He holds a three-ringed sceptre, representing dominion over body, mind, and spirit. The Egyptian priestess beneath him suggests hidden wisdom or esoteric teachings. Surrounding him are symbolic beasts—the bull of Taurus, an elephant, and four cherub masks—reinforcing themes of strength, structure, and initiation into higher knowledge. The composition conveys mystical revelation, initiation, and the channelling of sacred truths.
In Relationships: The Hierophant suggests relationships guided by shared values, spiritual connection, and mutual growth. It emphasises the importance of trust, commitment, and alignment in beliefs.
In Work: This card speaks to mentorship, tradition, and the power of established systems. It advises you to seek wisdom from trusted sources and honour the tried-and-true methods that lead to success.
Spiritually: The Hierophant represents initiation into higher knowledge and the sacred mysteries. He invites you to seek wisdom from spiritual teachings and align your actions with divine will.
When ill-dignified: The Hierophant warns against dogmatism, blind adherence to tradition, or excessive reliance on external authority. You are advised to discern whether you are following your spiritual truth or conforming to others' expectations.
The Other Person's Emotions
XX – The Aeon
(Judgement, Fire, Shin)
The Aeon represents transformation, evolution, and the awakening to a higher state of consciousness. Associated with Shin, the tooth, this card reflects the process of breaking through old paradigms to embrace a new spiritual era. Crowley's reinterpretation of Judgement as The Aeon emphasises rebirth on a cosmic scale, rather than individual reckoning.
The central figure is the translucent child-god Horus, representing the dawn of a new age. Above him, Nuit, the goddess of infinite space, arches across the sky, and Hadit, the fiery point of divine inspiration, burns at her core. The two incarnations of the same figure symbolise the transition from the old to the new. The vibrant reds and blues throughout the card evoke the dynamic forces of destruction and creation.
In Relationships: The Aeon signifies the potential for profound change. It suggests leaving behind outdated patterns and embracing a higher level of connection and understanding.
In Work: This card indicates a turning point, calling you to align with your true purpose and embrace transformative opportunities.
Spiritually: The Aeon symbolises awakening to a higher state of being. It calls you to release the past and step into your divine purpose with courage and clarity.
When ill-dignified: The Aeon warns of resistance to change, clinging to outdated beliefs, or fear of transformation. You are advised to trust the process of renewal and embrace the potential of the new era.
The Querent's External Stance
IX – The Hermit
(Virgo, Yod)
The Hermit represents the seeker of inner truth and the wisdom gained through solitude and introspection. Associated with Yod, the hand, this card embodies the divine spark of creation and the active quest for enlightenment. Virgo, the zodiac of analysis and service, lends the Hermit its meticulous and introspective energy.
The Hermit is a lone figure cloaked in red, symbolising both the concealment and revelation of profound mysteries. He holds a glowing lantern containing a star, representing the union of opposites and the illumination of divine wisdom. A serpent coils around the cosmic egg, an emblem of transformation and esoteric knowledge. In the foreground, a radiant yellow glow symbolises enlightenment, while the crop around him suggests the fertile soil of the unconscious mind.
In Relationships: The Hermit suggests introspection or solitude. It encourages you to seek clarity and the understanding of your own needs before reengaging with others.
In Work: This card indicates the value of independent effort and the importance of inner guidance. You are encouraged to trust your own wisdom and focus on long-term goals rather than immediate results.
Spiritually: The Hermit represents the solitary journey of self-discovery and pursuit of higher knowledge. It calls you to turn inward and seek truth through meditation and reflection.
When ill-dignified: The Hermit warns of isolation, excessive withdrawal, or a reluctance to share one's insights. You are advised to balance your introspection with meaningful connection and ensure you are not avoiding life's responsibilities.
The Other Person's External Stance
Knight of Cups
Element: Fire of Water
Astrological Correspondence: Pisces
The Knight of Cups represents the dynamic pursuit of emotional fulfilment and creative inspiration. As Fire of Water, he embodies the passionate drive to explore the depths of emotion and intuition, combining heartfelt intensity with purposeful action. The Knight is a noble figure on horseback, holding a cup with a crab aloft, symbolising his quest for emotional truth and romantic ideals.
The influence of Pisces enhances his sensitivity, imagination, and connection to the mystical and unseen. This pairing infuses the Knight's journey with dreamlike qualities, urging you to follow your creative visions and emotional aspirations, even if they seem intangible or challenging.
The Knight of Cups encourages you to actively pursue your dreams and ideals with courage and determination. He warns, however, against being swept away by fantasies or unrealistic expectations. By channelling his fiery passion and watery intuition, the Knight inspires a balanced approach to emotional and creative endeavours, driven by both heart and purpose.
In Relationships: The Knight of Cups indicates a person full of romantic fervour and idealistic love. He is the quintessential lover, pursuing relationships with enthusiasm and passion. This card may indicate an individual ready to express their love in bold, dramatic ways, or a situation in which love and romance are pursued with intensity and excitement.
In Work: The Knight of Cups suggests you may embark on a path driven by emotional inspiration or creative passion. It can also represent a time of emotional pursuit when you follow your desires or dreams, whether in the arts, healing, or another area that requires deep emotional engagement.
Spiritually: The Knight of Cups indicates a journey of emotional or spiritual discovery. It suggests you are exploring your inner world and seeking to understand deeper emotional or spiritual truths. This card encourages you to follow your heart, trusting your intuition to guide you.
When ill-dignified: The Knight of Cups can indicate emotional instability or impulsive romantic decisions based on fleeting desires. You may become too idealistic, leading to emotional disillusionment. It could also point to a tendency to act out of emotional intensity without considering the consequences or to chase after unattainable dreams.