Relationship Spread #1
Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
You |
Other Person |
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Thought |
 XI – Lust |
 Six of Cups (Pleasure) |
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Emotion |
 Princess of Disks |
The Significator  Two of Disks (Change) |
 Nine of Wands (Strength) |
External Stance |
 Seven of Cups (Debauch) |
 Ace of Disks |
The Significator
Two of Disks (Change)
Astrological Correspondence: Jupiter in Capricorn
This card symbolises the dynamic balance between opposing forces and the ever-shifting nature of material reality. The two disks in motion reflect the fluid and cyclical nature of life's material aspects, such as work, resources, and finances. The snake and yin-yang imagery emphasises the constant flow of these aspects and the need to navigate them with adaptability and flexibility.
This card suggests you are experiencing—or will soon encounter—change or fluctuation in material matters. The Two of Disks advises you to stay nimble and open to shifting circumstances, reminding us that change is inevitable and can be an opportunity for growth. The balance between the two disks represents the ability to manage competing demands, integrating opposing forces to maintain equilibrium.
The Two of Disks also brings the influence of Jupiter in Capricorn, which encourages expansive growth and the pursuit of long-term success within the structure of discipline and responsibility. It suggests the need to adapt to changes while maintaining focus on practical goals and building solid foundations for the future.
In Relationships: The Two of Disks may indicate the need to juggle multiple aspects of life, such as balancing work, home, and romantic commitments. It can represent the fluid, ever-changing nature of relationships, calling for the ability to adapt to shifts in dynamics.
In Work: The Two of Disks suggests a need to balance various aspects of career and business. It represents the challenges of managing multiple projects, finances, or priorities, and advises adaptability and resourcefulness in the face of ever-changing circumstances.
Spiritually: The Two of Disks calls for balance and the ability to adapt to changes in one's spiritual path. The card warns against being rigid and encourages you to flow with the changes and challenges of your spiritual journey.
When ill-dignified: The Two of Disks can signify instability, indecision, or being overwhelmed by too many competing priorities. It may indicate a lack of balance, difficulty managing material matters, or an inability to adapt to changing circumstances. In the worst case, it may suggest that you are resisting necessary changes or are being stretched too thin.
The Querent's Thoughts
XI – Lust
(Leo, Teth)
Lust, known as Strength in many other decks, takes on a unique and profound meaning in the Book of Thoth. This card signifies the ecstatic embrace of life's passions and the power derived from uniting primal instincts with spiritual purpose. Associated with Teth, the serpent, it symbolises both the kundalini energy and the continuous cycles of transformation and renewal. Leo, the zodiac of courage and vitality, infuses the card with boundless confidence and creative expression.
The central figure is a woman riding a multi-headed beast, a symbol of primal forces mastered and directed towards a higher purpose. Her nudity represents authenticity and fearlessness, while the cup she holds aloft is the Holy Grail, symbolising the ultimate spiritual goal. The beast itself, covered in fiery hues, represents the dynamic power of creation, destruction, and renewal. The background is filled with swirling red and gold, reflecting the intensity of life force and divine energy.
In Relationships: Lust represents passion, desire, and a fearless embrace of emotional intensity. It encourages you to fully engage with your relationships, revelling in love's transformative power.
In Work: This card signifies success achieved through boldness, enthusiasm, and a connection to one's creative instincts. You are advised to channel your energy into projects that ignite your passion.
Spiritually: Lust symbolises the awakening of spiritual vitality and integrating one's primal and divine natures. It calls you to surrender to the ecstatic flow of universal energy.
When ill-dignified: Lust warns of unchecked desires, destructive passions, or an overindulgence in material pleasures. You are advised to restore balance and align your desires with a higher purpose.
The Other Person's Thoughts
Six of Cups (Pleasure)
Astrological Correspondence: Sun in Scorpio
The Six of Cups symbolises harmony, emotional fulfilment, and glee derived from experiences or connections. In this deck, the card features six golden cups arranged in a balanced and symmetrical pattern, overflowing with water from flowers, representing the renewal and richness of emotional energy. The imagery conveys an atmosphere of sensual satisfaction and the revitalising joy of revisiting memories or tapping into emotional resources from the past.
The Sun in Scorpio combines the warmth and illumination of the Sun with Scorpio's depth and intensity, highlighting a connection between the conscious acknowledgment of joy and the transformative power of emotional experiences. It signifies a moment of emotional harmony where the past serves as a source of strength and inspiration for the present.
The Six of Cups invites us to indulge in the pleasures of memory and connection, celebrating the richness of our emotional life. While it carries echoes of nostalgia, it is not merely a backward glance but an affirmation of the deep well of emotional abundance that fuels growth and joy. It reminds us to embrace moments of pleasure, allowing them to recharge our spirits and enrich our present.
In Relationships: The Six of Cups can suggest a reunion with a past lover or rekindling of childhood affection or relationships that hold emotional nostalgia. It may also indicate a period of emotional healing, where you can find solace in the purity of love once experienced or remembered.
In Work: The Six of Cups might represent revisiting passions, returning to work or environments where you once found emotional fulfilment. This card suggests drawing on experiences or revisiting a childhood dream or ambition could help bring growth and emotional satisfaction in your career.
Spiritually: The Six of Cups speaks to a desire for a return to spiritual innocence and simplicity. It can be a reminder to embrace the spiritual joy and wonder of childhood or early spiritual experiences. It may also indicate a time to reconnect with old spiritual practices that once felt powerful, or to seek comfort in sacred places or rituals.
When ill-dignified: The Six of Cups may point to excessive attachment to the past, nostalgia for things that no longer serve you. There may be a reluctance to move forward, clinging to former relationships or times with an unrealistic expectation. You may feel stuck, as if you are living in the past and unable to embrace the present or future.
The Querent's Emotions
Princess of Disks
Element: Earth of Earth
The Princess of Disks represents the physical manifestation of the Earth element. Eternally pregnant, she embodies the material world in its most pure and unrefined state, symbolising the potential to bring the intangible into tangible form. The Princess of Disks is depicted plunging a spear into the earth while holding a large disk, symbolising both her connection to the Earth and her potential to manifest the material world through patience and diligent effort.
The Princess is connected to nature, the land, and the physical reality around her, representing abundance, fertility, and the ability to bring material success into reality. This card suggests that material growth is achieved through practicality, persistence, and grounded action. The Princess of Disks embodies a youthful, fresh perspective on the material world, often indicating the beginning of a new venture or an exploration into one's potential in the material realm.
Her presence in a reading may point to a period where you focus on practical matters, cultivating the resources necessary for future success. The card serves as a reminder that steady work, attention to detail, and a connection to nature are key to manifesting your goals in the material world.
In Relationships: The Princess of Disks can represent someone who is nurturing and grounded. She may be a caretaker or someone who brings stability to the relationship. This card can also suggest new beginnings or fresh, grounded energy entering a relationship, possibly indicating the start of something long-term and stable.
In Work: The Princess of Disks symbolises a time of new beginnings or a fresh approach to material pursuits. It may point to the early stages of a business or financial venture, or the development of a new skill or talent that will later bring success. This card encourages focus, diligence, and practicality in your career.
Spiritually: The Princess of Disks represents grounding, practicality, and connecting with the Earth. She may symbolise the need to ground one's spiritual practice in the physical realm. The card suggests that tending to the material world and embracing its lessons nurtures spiritual growth .
When ill-dignified: The Princess of Disks can point to an overemphasis on material concerns or an inability to appreciate the deeper, spiritual aspects of life. There may be a tendency to become attached to wealth, status, or possessions, neglecting more meaningful pursuits. She may also indicate a lack of maturity in approaching material matters.
The Other Person's Emotions
Nine of Wands (Strength)
Astrological Correspondence: Moon in Sagittarius
The Nine of Wands represents resilience, inner strength, and the perseverance needed to overcome challenges. This card features nine wands arranged in a structured yet dynamic pattern, radiating energy and determination. The Moon brings intuition, emotional depth, and adaptability, while Sagittarius contributes an optimistic and expansive drive, resulting in a card that embodies enduring strength amidst adversity.
This card signifies the ability to push forward despite difficulties, maintaining resolve and focus even when the path is arduous. It reflects the culmination of effort, where one has faced many battles and emerged stronger, though perhaps weary. The Nine of Wands encourages you to trust your instincts, remain vigilant, and protect what you have worked hard to achieve. It is a reminder that the final stretch of a challenge requires courage and unwavering determination.
In Relationships: The Nine of Wands represents a period where you may feel guarded or defensive because of experiences. It suggests a time of emotional resilience, where you are protecting the relationship or your heart but still willing to continue fighting for love.
In Work: This card indicates that you have faced many obstacles in your career or pursuits and are now standing strong, prepared to face any further challenges. It calls for perseverance and the belief that you can overcome any remaining difficulties.
Spiritually: The Nine of Wands speaks to spiritual endurance. You may have gone through difficult periods in your spiritual path but have come out stronger. This card encourages you to remain vigilant and steady as you continue your journey.
When ill-dignified: The Nine of Wands can indicate weariness, defensiveness, or being overwhelmed. You may feel like giving up or be too focused on old wounds to move forward. It warns against becoming too rigid or entrenched in past difficulties.
The Querent's External Stance
Seven of Cups (Debauch)
Astrological Correspondence: Venus in Scorpio
The Seven of Cups signifies emotional excess, illusion, and the dangers of overindulgence. This card depicts seven cups arranged chaotically, overflowing with murky, stagnant liquid, emphasising the corruption of pure emotional energy. The imagery conveys decay, as the once-refreshing waters of gladness and emotional fulfilment have become polluted by excess, indulgence, or lack of clarity.
Venus in Scorpio combines the seductive and magnetic qualities of Venus with Scorpio's intensity and depth, highlighting the tension between desire and emotional saturation. This card reflects the risks of being seduced by fleeting pleasures, ungrounded fantasies, or false promises, leading to a state of disillusionment and emotional stagnation.
The Seven of Cups warns against being caught in illusions or distracted by unproductive desires. It challenges us to discern between genuine fulfilment and empty indulgence. While it may tempt us with alluring possibilities, it urges us to ground ourselves, clear emotional confusion, and make choices that lead to lasting satisfaction and renewal.
In Relationships: The Seven of Cups suggests you may face many emotional choices, perhaps feeling uncertain about which path to take. It can indicate a tendency to be drawn to unrealistic or illusory relationships or desires, cautioning you to look beyond appearances and follow your heart.
In Work: The Seven of Cups warns of the dangers of distraction or chasing unrealistic opportunities. You may be overwhelmed by numerous options or distracted by tempting but empty promises. It advises you to focus on practical goals and avoid emotional escapism or fantasy-driven decisions.
Spiritually: The Seven of Cups points to confusion or a scattering of emotional or spiritual energy. You may be pulled in multiple directions or have trouble discerning between true spiritual paths and distractions. It invites you to ground yourself, focusing on the path that resonates most deeply with your soul.
When ill-dignified: The Seven of Cups can indicate emotional confusion or disillusionment. You may face excessive emotional choices, each more fleeting than the next, leading to indecision or a lack of emotional clarity. There may be a tendency to become consumed with fantasy at the expense of tangible reality, leading to disappointment.
The Other Person's External Stance
Ace of Disks
(Root of Earth)
The Ace of Disks represents the raw, unmanifested potential of the physical world. At the centre of the card lies a single disk, surrounded by a swirling energy that symbolises the seed of all material manifestation. This image reflects the potential for creating wealth, stability, and physical well-being. The Ace of Disks marks the initiation of a new cycle in the realm of material affairs, a beginning full of possibility and grounded in the Earth element.
This card embodies the promise of prosperity and abundance, signifying the fertile ground from which tangible results will grow. It suggests you are on the brink of a new opportunity that has the potential for lasting growth and concrete success. The Ace of Disks is a symbol of manifestation, inviting the energy of physical reality to align with your intentions, and pointing to the importance of patience, effort, and practical action in bringing desires into the material world.
In Relationships: The Ace of Disks represents a new, stable foundation for a relationship. It suggests a relationship could be grounded in the material realm, such as sharing resources, practical concerns, and tangible commitments. It is a positive sign for the long-term potential of a relationship if both partners are willing to invest in it practically and thoughtfully.
In Work: The Ace of Disks signifies the beginning of a new venture or enterprise with the potential for incredible material success. It suggests a strong foundation is being laid, and this card heralds new opportunities to make money or build a business. It encourages focusing on long-term goals and being practical in your approach to success.
Spiritually: This card represents grounding one's spiritual practice into the physical realm. It suggests a connection between the material and spiritual worlds, where the material world reflects the spiritual, and vice versa. The Ace of Disks invites you to manifest your spiritual insights in the physical world and recognise the divine in all things material.
When ill-dignified: The Ace of Disks can indicate missed opportunities in material matters or the failure to capitalise on available resources. There may be a reluctance to invest time and energy into practical affairs, or an inability to manifest your desires in the physical realm. It could also represent greed or an overemphasis on materialism at the expense of spiritual growth.