The Love Triangle Spread
Difficulty: Complicated
Casually referred to as the Love Triangle, this spread can be used to determine the dynamics of the relationship between three people, regardless of whether romance is involved. This spread is arranged in the form of a hexagram, consisting of several large and small triangles. This tarot spread may seem somewhat complicated, but it is not entirely that difficult.
The first step is to interpret the card for each individual position in the spread. Generally, one might ask about a relationship they are involved in, but this does not have to be the case. Ordinarily, the reader's representative card is #1, their main person of interest is #2, and the other person would be #3.
The second step fills in the downward triangle and involves further examination of the individuals through their views of the other people. Each person has two more cards showing the way they see and relate to the other members of the triangle. For example, Card #6 indicates how Person #3 relates to Person #1, while Card #9 stands for Person #1's attitude toward Person #3.
The next step completes the upward triangle and the hexagram, focusing on cards #10–13. It also completes the many smaller triangles and hints at the potential for each relationship. The final card, #13 can be considered the significator of the reading, which suggests the overall potential for this three-way relationship.
Your Love Triangle Reading
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1: Person #1
The Lovers signifies choice, connection, and the interplay between opposing forces. It represents the power of free will in aligning with one's deepest values and desires.
Symbolism: A central figure stands between two others, often interpreted as a choice between duty and desire or contrasting influences. Above, Cupid aims an arrow, symbolising divine inspiration or the fateful pull of love. The figures' expressions suggest conflict and harmony, reflecting the complexity of relationships.
In Relationships: Profound connections, romantic choices, or a pivotal decision within a partnership. It highlights emotional and spiritual harmony.
In Work: A crossroads where important decisions must align with personal values. Collaboration or partnerships may play a key role.
Spiritually: The Lovers calls for integrating dualities—earthly and divine, passion and reason—on the path to wholeness.
When ill-dignified: Indecision, temptation, or imbalance. It warns of superficial attractions or ignoring inner truth in key decisions.
2: Person #2
The Deuce of Coins represents balance, adaptability, and the management of priorities. It highlights the flow and rhythm of practical matters.
Symbolism: A blue ribbon bearing the name B.P. Grimaud links two coins, symbolising the interplay between dual forces. The design reflects the need for equilibrium and flexibility in navigating change.
In Relationships: Finding a balance between personal and shared responsibilities.
In Work: Juggling tasks or managing resources effectively. It encourages adaptability in the face of change.
Spiritually: The card represents the balance between spiritual and material pursuits, urging the seeker to maintain harmony.
When ill-dignified: Instability, over-commitment, or neglecting one priority in favour of another. It warns against losing balance in your endeavours.
3: Person #3
Judgement signifies awakening, transformation, and the call to a higher purpose. It represents a time of reckoning and renewal, offering the opportunity to align with divine will and embrace rebirth.
Symbolism: An angel blows a trumpet from above, awakening figures rising from coffins below. The trumpet symbolises divine calling, while the figures' praying hands reflect surrender and readiness for transformation. The scene suggests liberation and the promise of a new phase of existence.
In Relationships: Healing, forgiveness, or a transformative phase. It may signify a second chance or a fresh start.
In Work: A moment of clarity or a major decision that aligns your work with your higher purpose. Renewal is on the horizon.
Spiritually: Judgement calls you to awaken to your true calling, embrace forgiveness, and prepare for a spiritual rebirth.
When ill-dignified: Resistance to change, self-doubt, or avoidance of accountability. It warns against ignoring the call to transform.
4: Person #1's view of #2
The Six of Batons signifies victory, recognition, and the successful culmination of efforts. It represents the rewards of perseverance and leadership.
Symbolism: Six batons form a balanced crossing configuration, with lush foliage growing at their intersections. The design exudes vitality and harmony, symbolising triumph after struggle.
In Relationships: Mutual support and shared successes bring relationships into greater harmony.
In Work: Recognition for hard work and leadership. This card heralds well-earned success and public acclaim.
Spiritually: A time of alignment and confidence in your spiritual journey. Celebrate how far you've come.
When ill-dignified: Vanity, arrogance, or misplaced pride. It warns against resting on laurels or seeking validation at the expense of integrity.
5: Person #2's view of #3
Temperance embodies balance, harmony, and the art of blending opposites into a unified whole. It is a card of moderation and integration, calling for patience and the gentle flow of energies.
Symbolism: An angelic figure pours water between two vessels, symbolising the interplay of opposites and the alchemical transformation process. One cup is blue, and the other is red, suggesting a balance between the material and the spiritual.
In Relationships: Harmony and mutual understanding within relationships. It suggests compromise and blending energies for a greater whole.
In Work: A need for patience and adaptability. Success comes through steady effort and the balancing of resources.
Spiritually: Temperance invites you to harmonise opposing aspects of your being and align with the universal flow.
When ill-dignified: Imbalance, impatience, or excess. It warns against pushing too hard or failing to find equilibrium.
6: Person #3's view of #1
The Four of Batons represents stability, celebration, and the grounding of initial achievements. It reflects a moment of harmony and shared joy.
Symbolism: Four interwoven batons create a doubled cross, signifying stability and order. The balanced growth of leaves mirrors the fulfilment of early efforts and the foundations of future success.
In Relationships: Harmony and commitment. It may indicate joyful gatherings or milestones.
In Work: The achievement of an important goal or the establishment of a stable foundation for future endeavours.
Spiritually: A celebration of inner balance and alignment with the rhythms of life.
When ill-dignified: Restlessness or dissatisfaction with stability. It warns against taking harmony for granted or resisting change.
7: Person #2's view of #1
The Nine of Cups is a card of contentment, fulfilment, and the realisation of emotional desires. It is sometimes referred to as the 'wish card', symbolising the joy of achievement.
Symbolism: Nine cups are arranged in a symmetrical, flowing pattern, with flourishing decorations that reflect abundance and satisfaction. The balanced structure suggests harmony and emotional success.
In Relationships: Emotional satisfaction and a harmonious relationship. It may signify a wish fulfilled in love.
In Work: Recognition and rewards for hard work. Enjoy the fruits of your labour and celebrate your achievements.
Spiritually: The card reflects gratitude and alignment with your inner truth, inviting you to celebrate your blessings.
When ill-dignified: Complacency, overindulgence, or self-centredness. It warns against taking emotional fulfilment for granted.
8: Person #3's view of #2
The King of Coins represents mastery, security, and leadership in the material realm. He embodies the culmination of efforts to achieve prosperity and the wisdom to manage it responsibly.
Symbolism: The King sits on his throne, holding a coin against his thigh. His rich attire and the solid, grounded posture of his figure reflect his wealth, stability, and ability to create and sustain abundance. His gaze suggests foresight and the ability to guide others.
In Relationships: A stable, protective partner who values commitment and security. The card encourages cultivating trust and shared goals.
In Work: Leadership, financial success, and the ability to manage resources wisely. This card highlights mastery in your field and the respect of peers.
Spiritually: The King teaches the value of integrating spiritual wisdom with material responsibility, urging you to be a steward of their blessings.
When ill-dignified: Greed, arrogance, or misuse of power. It warns against becoming overly controlling or neglecting emotional connections in pursuit of material gain.
9: Person #1's view of #3
The Ten of Batons symbolises burdens, responsibilities, and the weight of success. It reflects the challenges of carrying too much, but also the potential for completion and fulfilment.
Symbolism: Ten batons form a dense, interwoven framework, with leaves struggling to emerge. The complexity of the design reflects the heavy responsibilities and pressures of achievement.
In Relationships: A relationship burdened by imbalances or external pressures. Communication is key to restoring harmony.
In Work: Overwork or carrying too many responsibilities. Delegation may be necessary to achieve long-term success.
Spiritually: The card invites you to release unnecessary burdens and focus on your spiritual priorities.
When ill-dignified: Overwhelm, failure to delegate, or losing sight of the goal. It warns against taking on more than you can handle.
10: Overall relationship between persons #1 and #2
The Ace of Coins symbolises the pure essence of material abundance, stability, and potential. It represents the seed of prosperity and the opportunity to build a strong foundation for success.
Symbolism: A single coin stands at the centre, adorned with floral motifs and a rectangular border. Its design reflects wealth and harmony, suggesting that prosperity is aligned with natural order and balance.
In Relationships: A grounded and stable beginning where trust and security are prioritised.
In Work: A promising opportunity or new venture in the material realm, offering long-term potential for success.
Spiritually: The card reflects alignment with earthly abundance and the ability to manifest your spiritual aspirations in tangible ways.
When ill-dignified: Missed opportunities, greed, or focusing only on material gain. It warns against neglecting deeper values in pursuit of wealth.
11: Overall relationship between persons #2 and #3
The King of Cups represents emotional balance, wisdom, and leadership. He embodies the ability to guide others with kindness and understanding while maintaining his own emotional stability.
Symbolism: Seated on his throne with a serene expression, the King holds a cup, symbolising emotional authority. The structure around him reflects his connection to intuition and emotional balance.
In Relationships: This card signifies a stable and emotionally mature partner or dynamic. It encourages fostering relationships built on mutual respect, trust, and emotional stability.
In Work: The King highlights leadership through emotional intelligence and wisdom. It suggests guiding others with compassion and remaining calm in challenging situations.
Spiritually: The King represents the harmony between intellect and emotions, urging you to channel your emotional stability into guiding yourself and others with integrity.
When ill-dignified: Emotional suppression, volatility, or manipulation. It warns against using emotional influence for selfish gain or allowing inner turbulence to disrupt your leadership.
12: Overall relationship between persons #1 and #3
The Ten of Cups represents emotional fulfillment, contentment, and the culmination of heartfelt desires. It signifies not just happiness, but a sense of satiety—where life's pleasures and emotional riches have reached their peak. This is a moment of completion, yet it also hints at the question: what comes next?
Symbolism: Nine cups form a strong foundation, supporting a single cup above them. This suggests a fullness of experience, where emotional harmony is achieved, yet the upper cup hints at something beyond—an ideal or a higher state of being. The absence of floral adornment focuses attention inward, emphasising that true fulfillment arises from within, not from external embellishments.
In Relationships: A state of emotional satisfaction, where love, connection, and shared joy flourish. It suggests bonds that have reached their natural fulfilment, yet a moment to reflect on what sustains love beyond its peak.
In Work: The realisation of success and stability, where satisfaction is achieved, yet the challenge now lies in maintaining passion and purpose beyond material completion.
Spiritually: A profound connection with the universe and the realisation that satisfaction comes from within. This card suggests an elevated state of emotional and spiritual fulfilment, yet invites contemplation on what lies beyond completion.
When ill-dignified: Overindulgence, complacency, or disillusionment after achieving one's desires. It warns against mistaking temporary satisfaction for lasting fulfilment and urges gratitude for present abundance.
13: Overall 3-way Relationship
The Seven of Batons represents perseverance and defending one's position against adversity. It is a card of courage and standing firm in the face of challenges.
Symbolism: Seven batons form a dense structure, with a single baton balancing it. The emerging leaves suggest growth through effort and resilience, despite obstacles.
In Relationships: Challenges require mutual understanding and dedication to overcome external pressures.
In Work: A competitive environment calls for tenacity and self-confidence. Stay true to your vision.
Spiritually: The card reflects the need to remain steadfast in your beliefs and protect your spiritual path from distractions.
When ill-dignified: Overwhelm, defensiveness, or isolation. It warns against becoming combative or losing sight of your goals.