Relationship Spread #2
Difficulty: Easy
This relationship spread focuses more on the common ground of the relationship, with three cards in the middle column showing the common ground. The middle column essentially displays the past, present, and future of the relationship.
Card #4 stands for the common base of the relationship, which may be thought of as the past events which have shaped their characters, bringing them together. The current connection that binds them together is Card #3, indicating the values shared. Card #7 implies the common goals that would keep the pair together moving into the future.
The columns on either side show what each partner brings to the table. Remember, relationships need not be romantic, and the partners could even be groups rather than individuals. In this layout, the other person is on the left-hand side and the reader on the right.
Cards #1 & #2 indicate the separate personalities of each member of the relationship. These cards form a sort of bridge with the cards beneath them, #5 & #6, which show the qualities that each partner offers the other person, and thus to the relationship as a whole.
Your Relationship #2 Reading
Mutual Goals |
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Your Qualities |
Connection (Present) |
Others' Qualities |
What You Bring |
Common Base (Past) |
What They Bring  |
7: Mutual Goals
Eight of Batons
The Eight of Batons symbolises rapid progress, momentum, and swift resolution. It encourages focus and decisiveness to make the most of opportunities.
Symbolism: Eight batons align dynamically, creating a sense of motion and direction. The flowers sprouting atop the batons reflect the energy of growth propelled forward rapidly.
In Relationships: Fast-paced developments in relationships or sudden clarity about emotional matters.
In Work: Momentum builds as goals approach completion. This is a time for decisive action.
Spiritually: The card reflects accelerated growth and alignment with a higher purpose. Trust the flow of events.
When ill-dignified: Chaos, missed opportunities, or rushing without purpose. It warns against letting haste lead to mistakes.
3: Connection
Five of Coins
The Five of Coins symbolises hardship, scarcity, and the challenges of material or emotional instability. It invites resilience and the recognition of available support.
Symbolism: Five coins form an X, reflecting imbalance and disruption. The floral embellishments suggest that growth is possible, even in difficult circumstances.
In Relationships: Struggles often involving feelings of neglect or emotional distance. It calls for mutual support and understanding.
In Work: Financial or professional difficulties that require perseverance and resourcefulness.
Spiritually: The card reflects the challenges of feeling disconnected from abundance, urging the seeker to rediscover faith and community.
When ill-dignified: Despair, self-pity, or a refusal to seek help. It warns against isolating yourself during difficult times.
4: Common Base
Queen of Coins
The Queen of Coins embodies nurturing, abundance, and mastery of the material realm. She represents the integration of practicality and care, creating a space for growth and prosperity.
Symbolism: The Queen sits on a throne, holding a coin delicately but firmly in her fingertips, symbolising her control over material resources. Her flowing robes suggest comfort and grace, while her throne and sceptre reflect her nurturing and abundant energy.
In Relationships: A caring and supportive partner who creates a stable and nurturing environment. It encourages generosity and patience in relationships.
In Work: A time of financial stability and resourcefulness. Success comes through practical wisdom and thoughtful management.
Spiritually: The Queen invites the seeker to honour the sacred in everyday life, recognising the spiritual in material prosperity.
When ill-dignified: Overindulgence, materialism, or possessiveness. It warns against neglecting emotional or spiritual needs in pursuit of wealth.
2: Your Qualities
VI – The Lovers (L'Amoureux)
The Lovers signifies choice, connection, and the interplay between opposing forces. It represents the power of free will in aligning with one's deepest values and desires.
Symbolism: A central figure stands between two others, often interpreted as a choice between duty and desire or contrasting influences. Above, Cupid aims an arrow, symbolising divine inspiration or the fateful pull of love. The figures' expressions suggest conflict and harmony, reflecting the complexity of relationships.
In Relationships: Profound connections, romantic choices, or a pivotal decision within a partnership. It highlights emotional and spiritual harmony.
In Work: A crossroads where important decisions must align with personal values. Collaboration or partnerships may play a key role.
Spiritually: The Lovers calls for integrating dualities—earthly and divine, passion and reason—on the path to wholeness.
When ill-dignified: Indecision, temptation, or imbalance. It warns of superficial attractions or ignoring inner truth in key decisions.
1: Their Qualities
Queen of Swords
The Queen of Swords represents wisdom, clarity, and the ability to make balanced decisions through intellect and discernment. She encourages a blend of compassion and reason when approaching challenges.
Symbolism: Seated with poise on her throne, the Queen holds her sword upright, a symbol of her unwavering commitment to truth and fairness. Her serene expression and elevated position suggest clarity of thought and emotional maturity.
In Relationships: This card reflects fairness, honesty, and emotional clarity. It highlights the importance of setting boundaries and maintaining open, respectful dialogue.
In Work: The Queen advises making thoughtful, well-informed decisions. She represents the ability to lead with integrity and insight, even in challenging situations.
Spiritually: The Queen symbolises the wisdom gained from life's trials and the mastery of using intellect to navigate emotional and spiritual truths.
When ill-dignified: Coldness, rigidity, or harsh judgements. It warns against being detached or being a jerk in your interactions.
6: What You Bring
Ten of Swords
5: What They Bring
Deuce of Swords
The Deuce of Swords symbolises balance, duality, and the tension of decision-making. It represents a moment of stillness before action, where the mind seeks clarity amidst opposing forces.
Symbolism: Two curved blades cross symmetrically, forming a stable yet tense arrangement. The floral designs in the space between them suggest that harmony can emerge through directed thought and balance.
In Relationships: A crossroads where choices must be made, often involving compromise or addressing hidden issues.
In Work: A need to weigh options. Progress depends on thoughtful analysis and avoiding haste.
Spiritually: The card reflects the need to reconcile inner dualities to achieve mental and emotional peace.
When ill-dignified: Indecision, avoidance, or emotional detachment. It warns against stagnation or failure to confront the truth.