Relationship Spread #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.

Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

	You		Other Person
Thought	Seven of Coins		VIIII – The Hermit (L'Hermite)
Emotion	XIIII – Temperance	The Significator Ace of Coins	Three of Coins
External Stance	Six of Swords		Knight of Batons

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Ace of Coins

The Ace of Coins symbolises the pure essence of material abundance, stability, and potential. It represents the seed of prosperity and the opportunity to build a strong foundation for success.

Symbolism: A single coin stands at the centre, adorned with floral motifs and a rectangular border. Its design reflects wealth and harmony, suggesting that prosperity is aligned with natural order and balance.

In Relationships: A grounded and stable beginning where trust and security are prioritised.

In Work: A promising opportunity or new venture in the material realm, offering long-term potential for success.

Spiritually: The card reflects alignment with earthly abundance and the ability to manifest your spiritual aspirations in tangible ways.

When ill-dignified: Missed opportunities, greed, or focusing only on material gain. It warns against neglecting deeper values in pursuit of wealth.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Seven of Coins

The Seven of Coins signifies patience, evaluation, and long-term planning. It reflects the need to assess progress and make adjustments for future growth.

Symbolism: Seven coins are arranged in an uneven pattern, with budding leaves suggesting slow but steady growth. The design emphasises reflection and the rewards of cultivation.

In Relationships: A relationship enters a reflective phase, where mutual effort and commitment are assessed.

In Work: Progress may feel slow, but perseverance and thoughtful adjustments will yield results.

Spiritually: The card urges the seeker to remain patient and trust the process of spiritual growth.

When ill-dignified: Impatience, dissatisfaction, or poor planning. It warns against abandoning efforts prematurely or ignoring the need for evaluation.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

VIIII – The Hermit (L'Hermite)

The Hermit represents solitude, introspection, and the pursuit of inner wisdom. He invites the seeker to retreat from distractions and focus on the guiding light within.

Symbolism: An old man walks with a staff, holding a lantern that illuminates his path. The lantern symbolises the light of wisdom gained through introspection and experience. His posture suggests humility and patience, while his cloak emphasises withdrawal from the external world.

In Relationships: A period of self-reflection or a need for solitude to gain clarity on emotional matters.

In Work: A time for careful planning and introspection. Wisdom lies in patient deliberation rather than immediate action.

Spiritually: The Hermit invites the seeker to turn inward, embracing solitude as a space for spiritual awakening and self-discovery.

When ill-dignified: Isolation, fear of introspection, or excessive withdrawal. It warns against cutting oneself off from others or resisting inner truth.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

XIIII – Temperance

Temperance embodies balance, harmony, and the art of blending opposites into a unified whole. It is a card of moderation and integration, calling for patience and the gentle flow of energies.

Symbolism: An angelic figure pours water between two vessels, symbolising the interplay of opposites and the alchemical transformation process. One cup is blue, and the other is red, suggesting a balance between the material and the spiritual.

In Relationships: Harmony and mutual understanding within relationships. It suggests compromise and blending energies for a greater whole.

In Work: A need for patience and adaptability. Success comes through steady effort and the balancing of resources.

Spiritually: Temperance invites you to harmonise opposing aspects of your being and align with the universal flow.

When ill-dignified: Imbalance, impatience, or excess. It warns against pushing too hard or failing to find equilibrium.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Three of Coins

The Three of Coins signifies collaboration, craftsmanship, and the rewards of skilful effort. It represents the value of teamwork and the recognition of one's abilities.

Symbolism: Three coins are arranged in a triangular pattern, surrounded by simple yet elegant floral vines. The arrangement reflects stability and progress through cooperative effort and mastery.

In Relationships: A relationship thrives through mutual support and shared goals. It encourages building something lasting together.

In Work: Recognition for your skills or successful collaboration on a project. This card highlights the importance of working well with others.

Spiritually: The card reflects the refinement of your spiritual practices and the importance of learning from others.

When ill-dignified: Disorganisation, lack of collaboration, or undervaluing your skills. It warns against neglecting teamwork or overestimating individual effort.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Six of Swords

The Six of Swords represents transition, recovery, and the journey towards calmer waters. It is a card of progress through reflection and leaving behind what no longer serves.

Symbolism: Six curved swords are arranged in an oval pattern, suggesting motion and harmony. The floral motifs emphasise renewal and the promise of growth through change.

In Relationships: Moving forward together after difficulties, or the need to let go of a relationship for emotional peace.

In Work: Transitioning to a new role or project. It reflects progress and adaptability in the face of challenges.

Spiritually: The card invites the seeker to release burdens and embrace the journey towards enlightenment.

When ill-dignified: Resistance to change, stagnation, or clinging to the past. It warns against avoiding necessary transitions.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Knight of Batons

The Knight of Batons embodies bold action, passion, and the determination to pursue dreams with unyielding energy. This card encourages moving forward fearlessly but with mindful direction.

Symbolism: Riding a powerful horse, the Knight turns to the left, his baton raised, representing ambition and drive. The landscape is dynamic, reflecting the urgency and intensity of his mission.

In Relationships: The card suggests fiery passion, exciting pursuits, or adventurous connections. It calls for embracing the thrill of love while balancing impulsive tendencies.

In Work: It symbolises bold moves, taking calculated risks, or pursuing a goal with tenacity. The Knight encourages decisive action and warns against hesitation.

Spiritually: The Knight represents momentum and the courage to take steps towards spiritual growth or creative expression. It urges you to trust your inner fire to guide you.

When ill-dignified: Recklessness, impatience, or arrogance. It warns against rushing into situations without preparation or foresight.