Relationship Spread #1
Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
You |
Other Person |
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Thought |
 XVIIII – The Sun (Le Soleil) |
 Seven of Swords |
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Emotion |
 X – The Wheel of Fortune (La Roue de Fortune) |
The Significator  Valet of Cups |
 III – The Empress (L'Impératrice) |
External Stance |
 King of Cups |
 Deuce of Swords |
The Significator
Valet of Cups
The Valet of Cups represents emotional curiosity, creative exploration, and the beginnings of intuitive or artistic growth. He invites a playful and open-hearted approach to life, encouraging you to embrace wonder and imagination.
Symbolism: The Valet gazes into a beautifully adorned cup, symbolising reflection and curiosity about his inner emotional world. His youthful posture indicates receptivity to new feelings, intuitive insights, and creative inspiration.
In Relationships: This card signifies the beginnings of a new connection or the renewal of emotional bonds. It encourages an open heart and a willingness to explore your feelings with vulnerability and joy.
In Work: The Valet suggests an opportunity to pursue a creative or emotionally fulfilling path. It highlights the importance of nurturing ideas and remaining receptive to inspiration.
Spiritually: The Valet symbolises a journey of emotional discovery, urging you to remain open to intuition, creative expression, and messages from within.
When ill-dignified: Emotional immaturity, naivety, or an unwillingness to confront deeper feelings. It warns against being overly idealistic or dismissive of intuition.
The Querent's Thoughts
XVIIII – The Sun (Le Soleil)
The Sun represents joy, success, and clarity. It is the card of illumination and vitality, promising growth, harmony, and the fulfilment of goals through clarity and connection.
Symbolism: Two children stand joyfully under the radiant Sun, surrounded by a protective wall. The Sun itself symbolises divine energy and enlightenment, while the figures reflect innocence, unity, and shared happiness. The vibrant rays evoke abundance and the thriving life force.
In Relationships: Mutual happiness, harmony, and a joyful connection. Relationships flourish under the light of clarity and love.
In Work: Success and recognition achieved through positivity and effort. It suggests a time of clarity and accomplishment.
Spiritually: The Sun calls for embracing the light within and aligning with your true purpose, radiating joy and love outward.
When ill-dignified: Arrogance, burnout, or overexposure. It warns against taking blessings for granted or letting ego overshadow gratitude.
The Other Person's Thoughts
Seven of Swords
The Seven of Swords symbolises strategy, cunning, and the challenges of navigating complex situations. It reflects the need for careful planning but warns of dishonesty or shortcuts.
Symbolism: Seven swords form a slightly chaotic arrangement, reflecting the complexity of the situation. One blade is framed by six. The decorative elements hint at the potential for creative solutions amid disorder.
In Relationships: Secrecy or hidden motives. Open communication is key to avoiding misunderstandings.
In Work: Strategic thinking is required, but ensure your actions align with your ethical standards.
Spiritually: The card challenges you to face your truths rather than evading responsibility.
When ill-dignified: Deception, betrayal, or self-sabotage. It warns against dishonesty with oneself or others.
The Querent's Emotions
X – The Wheel of Fortune (La Roue de Fortune)
The Wheel of Fortune symbolises the ever-turning cycles of life, fate, and destiny. It teaches the importance of adaptability and trust in the rhythms of change.
Symbolism: The wheel is adorned with figures ascending and descending, representing the rise and fall of fortunes. Its circular motion evokes the cyclical nature of existence, while divine forces implied by the card's design suggest that some aspects of life are beyond human control.
In Relationships: Changes in relationship dynamics or the appearance of new opportunities. Trust in the flow of events.
In Work: A shift in circumstances, often bringing unexpected opportunities. Stay flexible and open to change.
Spiritually: The Wheel of Fortune reflects the interconnectedness of life's cycles, encouraging surrender to the divine plan.
When ill-dignified: Resistance to change or clinging to outdated patterns. It warns of losing perspective during times of transition.
The Other Person's Emotions
III – The Empress (L'Impératrice)
This card signifies the creative force in its most abundant and fertile form. It represents growth, nurturing, and the life-giving power of nature.
Symbolism: Her sceptre symbolises authority rooted in creativity and love, while the shield bearing an eagle emphasises vision and protection. The Empress's seated posture on her throne exudes a sensual yet controlled energy, symbolising the harmony between fertility and structure. Her crown and flowing robes represent her connection to divine beauty and earthly abundance.
In Relationships: The blossoming of love or a nurturing, supportive relationship. It is a call to cultivate affection with care and patience.
In Work: A time of prolific creativity and the manifestation of projects. Trust your ability to bring ideas to fruition.
Spiritually: The Empress guides you to honour your divine creative potential, celebrating the interplay between spirit and matter.
When ill-dignified: Overindulgence, stagnation, or excessive control. It warns against smothering growth or being consumed by material concerns.
The Querent's External Stance
King of Cups
The King of Cups represents emotional balance, wisdom, and leadership. He embodies the ability to guide others with kindness and understanding while maintaining his own emotional stability.
Symbolism: Seated on his throne with a serene expression, the King holds a cup, symbolising emotional authority. The structure around him reflects his connection to intuition and emotional balance.
In Relationships: This card signifies a stable and emotionally mature partner or dynamic. It encourages fostering relationships built on mutual respect, trust, and emotional stability.
In Work: The King highlights leadership through emotional intelligence and wisdom. It suggests guiding others with compassion and remaining calm in challenging situations.
Spiritually: The King represents the harmony between intellect and emotions, urging you to channel your emotional stability into guiding yourself and others with integrity.
When ill-dignified: Emotional suppression, volatility, or manipulation. It warns against using emotional influence for selfish gain or allowing inner turbulence to disrupt your leadership.
The Other Person's External Stance
Deuce of Swords
The Deuce of Swords symbolises balance, duality, and the tension of decision-making. It represents a moment of stillness before action, where the mind seeks clarity amidst opposing forces.
Symbolism: Two curved blades cross symmetrically, forming a stable yet tense arrangement. The floral designs in the space between them suggest that harmony can emerge through directed thought and balance.
In Relationships: A crossroads where choices must be made, often involving compromise or addressing hidden issues.
In Work: A need to weigh options. Progress depends on thoughtful analysis and avoiding haste.
Spiritually: The card reflects the need to reconcile inner dualities to achieve mental and emotional peace.
When ill-dignified: Indecision, avoidance, or emotional detachment. It warns against stagnation or failure to confront the truth.